by outnumbered » Tue Oct 07, 2014 12:11 pm
We were in a similar position 5 years ago and reading this thread has brought it back to me! It was all a bit later back then, I think February time, and our dilemma was that our son was on the 'interviewed waiting list' (as I think they called it) which meant they needed a boy born in the same month to turn their offer down. Meanwhile, the clock was ticking on our deposit due date at Eaton House...
I was asked to call Thomas's every two weeks from the day we received our waiting list offer to see if there had been any movement. We really liked both schools and had several weeks to really think about our options. By then we'd had a second boy, loved the look of Eaton House, the fact that boys can stay until 13, followed by an impressive list of schools they send onto, they get to play sport on the Common right in front of the school and have their lunch break there in the Prep, take part in a brilliant selection of after school clubs and matches and to be taught in an environment that 'gets' boys and understands how differently they learn from us girls.
We chose Eaton House confidently in the end and I felt huge relief that I wouldn't have to call Thomas's again to check on that list once we'd written the cheque! We've never looked back, the boys love it and we're really pleased with our choice. That's not to say that we don't have friends at Thomas's who love it, as well as lots of the other local schools. Let's face it, around here we're spoilt for choice, be it independent or state and I'm pretty sure most people are ultimately pleased with wherever they choose to send their children. It's an individual choice and often a gut feeling. And in our case, there was no way we were going to throw a few thousand pounds down the drain accepting one over another and then going with the one that offered second!
We were in a similar position 5 years ago and reading this thread has brought it back to me! It was all a bit later back then, I think February time, and our dilemma was that our son was on the 'interviewed waiting list' (as I think they called it) which meant they needed a boy born in the same month to turn their offer down. Meanwhile, the clock was ticking on our deposit due date at Eaton House...
I was asked to call Thomas's every two weeks from the day we received our waiting list offer to see if there had been any movement. We really liked both schools and had several weeks to really think about our options. By then we'd had a second boy, loved the look of Eaton House, the fact that boys can stay until 13, followed by an impressive list of schools they send onto, they get to play sport on the Common right in front of the school and have their lunch break there in the Prep, take part in a brilliant selection of after school clubs and matches and to be taught in an environment that 'gets' boys and understands how differently they learn from us girls.
We chose Eaton House confidently in the end and I felt huge relief that I wouldn't have to call Thomas's again to check on that list once we'd written the cheque! We've never looked back, the boys love it and we're really pleased with our choice. That's not to say that we don't have friends at Thomas's who love it, as well as lots of the other local schools. Let's face it, around here we're spoilt for choice, be it independent or state and I'm pretty sure most people are ultimately pleased with wherever they choose to send their children. It's an individual choice and often a gut feeling. And in our case, there was no way we were going to throw a few thousand pounds down the drain accepting one over another and then going with the one that offered second!