by Elsa09 » Fri Feb 06, 2015 7:01 pm
Hello,
I am hoping that someone can give me some advice, be able to point me in the right direction.
My middle child (stereotypical I know!) has recently started displaying violent and impulsive behavior. He has always been quick to anger and never seemed to grow out of the terrible two's. He has huge amounts of energy, finds it hard to concentrate on anything longer than a couple of minutes. He has never been into telly,toys, drawing etc.. Because he has never been still long enough to enjoy them.
From a very young age we started restricting sugar as we noticed immediately it would affect his behavior. His huge personality, excess energy, impulsiveness, temper tantrums have never been a huge problem as as a family we realized that was part of who he is and could deal with it.
Recently however he has started being violent- kicking, biting , punching, throwing toys etc...to all family members including my youngest (under a year old.) he gets so angry that three times he has run into the road in rage. He has no fear of danger not is he intimidated by authority, teachers etc..
This week his school rang me and suggested I seek outside help. A professional who deals in ADHD/behavior issues in children. I don't want to lable him, nor do I think it's possible to fully asses what's going on as he is under 10 years old, but have agreed with the school that it can't hurt for someone outside of the situation to evaluate what's going on, how we can support him, and if indeed this is more than just a phase.
But I don't know where to start. We are fortunate to have private insurance but have no clue who he should see?!
Does anyone know of someone who works with children this age who have add/adhd, behavioral issues?
Any advice greatly received.
Thanx
Hello,
I am hoping that someone can give me some advice, be able to point me in the right direction.
My middle child (stereotypical I know!) has recently started displaying violent and impulsive behavior. He has always been quick to anger and never seemed to grow out of the terrible two's. He has huge amounts of energy, finds it hard to concentrate on anything longer than a couple of minutes. He has never been into telly,toys, drawing etc.. Because he has never been still long enough to enjoy them.
From a very young age we started restricting sugar as we noticed immediately it would affect his behavior. His huge personality, excess energy, impulsiveness, temper tantrums have never been a huge problem as as a family we realized that was part of who he is and could deal with it.
Recently however he has started being violent- kicking, biting , punching, throwing toys etc...to all family members including my youngest (under a year old.) he gets so angry that three times he has run into the road in rage. He has no fear of danger not is he intimidated by authority, teachers etc..
This week his school rang me and suggested I seek outside help. A professional who deals in ADHD/behavior issues in children. I don't want to lable him, nor do I think it's possible to fully asses what's going on as he is under 10 years old, but have agreed with the school that it can't hurt for someone outside of the situation to evaluate what's going on, how we can support him, and if indeed this is more than just a phase.
But I don't know where to start. We are fortunate to have private insurance but have no clue who he should see?!
Does anyone know of someone who works with children this age who have add/adhd, behavioral issues?
Any advice greatly received.
Thanx