by Pixie65 » Mon Jul 09, 2018 11:07 am
Really interested in this as when I lived in a lovely flat in Wandsworth my large French windows were opposite the garden of a posh house behind, every night in the summer the owner a man in his 50s had friends round and they drove me mad with their really loud, booming noises and screeching laughter. It really carried badly straight into my flat.
I had to shut the windows and turn up the telly to drown it out, it was miserable. I felt I couldn't complain because it was just about six people in a garden talking, but they seemed to have really loud voices.
So I moved to Bournemouth to a really lovely house with a large garden. I love the fact that my daughter etc can play out making as much noise as they like - well I did until last week I got the dreaded complaints from the neighbour next door.
I'd had a family birthday party, the kids had been noisy during the day just playing. At about 11pm a few stragglers about 8 were sat chatting on my decking and the music was on but low.
Then I heard my neighbour screaming and shouting about the noise - it was so embarrassing and I immediately apologised and made everyone leave. She was really hysterical.
I wrote a letter apologising but am now in a quandary. My house is detached but neighbours are nearby, I now worry about making any noise, feel I cannot enjoy my garden, especially in this hot weather.
Feel embarrassed when I see her, she's blanking me but was never very friendly in first place. Her children are now teenagers so imagine they used to make noise but have now grown out of it.
The neighbours on other side who are much older have been really lovely, said don't worry about it, we didn't hear anything, we all have dos as long as it's not every week, every night we don't mind.
The point I'm making is you might move and find yourself in exactly the same position, to be honest I now feel that being able to afford a detached house in plenty of grounds is only way you can 1.avoid noise, 2. Feel free to enjoy your garden and house as you want.
Also if you move to somewhere quietly anyone can move in and ruin it. I now feel like the neighbour from hell even though I'm not. Look for somewhere in the country detached and with lots of room round it to be really safe.
Really interested in this as when I lived in a lovely flat in Wandsworth my large French windows were opposite the garden of a posh house behind, every night in the summer the owner a man in his 50s had friends round and they drove me mad with their really loud, booming noises and screeching laughter. It really carried badly straight into my flat.
I had to shut the windows and turn up the telly to drown it out, it was miserable. I felt I couldn't complain because it was just about six people in a garden talking, but they seemed to have really loud voices.
So I moved to Bournemouth to a really lovely house with a large garden. I love the fact that my daughter etc can play out making as much noise as they like - well I did until last week I got the dreaded complaints from the neighbour next door.
I'd had a family birthday party, the kids had been noisy during the day just playing. At about 11pm a few stragglers about 8 were sat chatting on my decking and the music was on but low.
Then I heard my neighbour screaming and shouting about the noise - it was so embarrassing and I immediately apologised and made everyone leave. She was really hysterical.
I wrote a letter apologising but am now in a quandary. My house is detached but neighbours are nearby, I now worry about making any noise, feel I cannot enjoy my garden, especially in this hot weather.
Feel embarrassed when I see her, she's blanking me but was never very friendly in first place. Her children are now teenagers so imagine they used to make noise but have now grown out of it.
The neighbours on other side who are much older have been really lovely, said don't worry about it, we didn't hear anything, we all have dos as long as it's not every week, every night we don't mind.
The point I'm making is you might move and find yourself in exactly the same position, to be honest I now feel that being able to afford a detached house in plenty of grounds is only way you can 1.avoid noise, 2. Feel free to enjoy your garden and house as you want.
Also if you move to somewhere quietly anyone can move in and ruin it. I now feel like the neighbour from hell even though I'm not. Look for somewhere in the country detached and with lots of room round it to be really safe.