by Titanium » Tue Sep 17, 2019 1:36 pm
I agree with mummybubble. Some pupils who can’t participate to this attendance award, which I find ridiculous, as nature is unfair but then there are other pupils who can’t participate to other types of awards, also because of disabilities or conditions, so what to do?
Something else to say:
It is very hard for a child to live with a condition that affects their daily life. But for the child, the worst is when their peers or other people don’t understand it, mock them because of it, exclude them or challenge them to ‘get on with it’.
I believe Mum2monkey is facing quite a lot of distress from her child and has posted to see if there was any advice available, not to be told how to parent her child. Who are you (some posters above) to tell her how to parent her child and comment on the attendance affecting the school’s records? And what sort of good would it do to tell a child in pain such enormity? A child with a medical condition is already much more resilient and has learnt to accept many unpleasant consequences on their life. Don’t you think they deserve more than a ‘get on with it’? Why are you saying such things exactly? Do you have a personal issue with this?
Children with medical conditions regularly face hostility when their needed are being catered because other children often lack the maturity and empathy to understand that this child is not seeking attention, he just has to live with a condition. It is annoying but quite common and hopefully children will develop empathy as they grow. But for adults to talk like this ? It is very worrying.
I agree with mummybubble. Some pupils who can’t participate to this attendance award, which I find ridiculous, as nature is unfair but then there are other pupils who can’t participate to other types of awards, also because of disabilities or conditions, so what to do?
Something else to say:
It is very hard for a child to live with a condition that affects their daily life. But for the child, the worst is when their peers or other people don’t understand it, mock them because of it, exclude them or challenge them to ‘get on with it’.
I believe Mum2monkey is facing quite a lot of distress from her child and has posted to see if there was any advice available, not to be told how to parent her child. Who are you (some posters above) to tell her how to parent her child and comment on the attendance affecting the school’s records? And what sort of good would it do to tell a child in pain such enormity? A child with a medical condition is already much more resilient and has learnt to accept many unpleasant consequences on their life. Don’t you think they deserve more than a ‘get on with it’? Why are you saying such things exactly? Do you have a personal issue with this?
Children with medical conditions regularly face hostility when their needed are being catered because other children often lack the maturity and empathy to understand that this child is not seeking attention, he just has to live with a condition. It is annoying but quite common and hopefully children will develop empathy as they grow. But for adults to talk like this ? It is very worrying.