by sissy » Tue Jan 10, 2012 12:36 pm
Couples don't know each other properly unless they live together. If they think it is not working nor will work out, why prolong the pain and unhappiness? They have no lids and are both independent so I think they done the right think. I speak from my own experience on my fist marriage. I was together with ex for 3 years before getting married but less than 10 months on I knew she was ready to separate but was holding back because I was totally depending on him and he took me to live with him in a foreign country to work on his career (I left mine to go with him) so he couldn't just dump me like that. Of course he was having an affair and after 18 months marriage he managed to have the courage to give me red card. It wasn't easy for me but we were both clearly unhappy. Everyone deserve a chance to start again.
Couples don't know each other properly unless they live together. If they think it is not working nor will work out, why prolong the pain and unhappiness? They have no lids and are both independent so I think they done the right think. I speak from my own experience on my fist marriage. I was together with ex for 3 years before getting married but less than 10 months on I knew she was ready to separate but was holding back because I was totally depending on him and he took me to live with him in a foreign country to work on his career (I left mine to go with him) so he couldn't just dump me like that. Of course he was having an affair and after 18 months marriage he managed to have the courage to give me red card. It wasn't easy for me but we were both clearly unhappy. Everyone deserve a chance to start again.