by cheshirecat » Wed Jun 06, 2012 10:46 am
The problem is not people who genuinely move. We moved from a two bed 10 minutes from the school, to a three bed 20 minutes away, that was necessary. The problem is the people who rent just to get their child into the school. I just feel sorry for people who feel they need to rent near a school they want their child in. They must have no faith in their child and are generally scared of life, that they MUST go to a good school and not mix with children and families that do not share their exact values (news flash, even the outstanding schools have the typical London mix of pupils). I know a couple who rented a house nearer their choice of Secondary and recently rented another to get their youngest into an outstanding primary. The mother recently told me that her son is naive and needed to be in a good school. To me this translates as 'I am scared, I have sheltered my child and he is only of average intelligence so he needs to be pushed in order to succeed'. Their kids are annoying spoilt brats, so good luck to them! It just makes me mad that children in the council estate on my street are unable to get into the local school because of anxious middle class mother's like this one, who are so scared of London society that they do stupid things like this to widen the gap and make the problem even worse!
The problem is not people who genuinely move. We moved from a two bed 10 minutes from the school, to a three bed 20 minutes away, that was necessary. The problem is the people who rent just to get their child into the school. I just feel sorry for people who feel they need to rent near a school they want their child in. They must have no faith in their child and are generally scared of life, that they MUST go to a good school and not mix with children and families that do not share their exact values (news flash, even the outstanding schools have the typical London mix of pupils). I know a couple who rented a house nearer their choice of Secondary and recently rented another to get their youngest into an outstanding primary. The mother recently told me that her son is naive and needed to be in a good school. To me this translates as 'I am scared, I have sheltered my child and he is only of average intelligence so he needs to be pushed in order to succeed'. Their kids are annoying spoilt brats, so good luck to them! It just makes me mad that children in the council estate on my street are unable to get into the local school because of anxious middle class mother's like this one, who are so scared of London society that they do stupid things like this to widen the gap and make the problem even worse!