Hi
We stayed at this place in Sri Lanka last Feb and frankly it was one of the most perfect holidays we have ever taken. Our son was 18mths.
Their actual website is a bit cheesey, but there is nothing cheesey about the actual place so check out the trip advisor feedback instead.
It's a blend of private villa with 5* personalised hotel service and care with the most exceptional food. It's managed by locals (the owner lives in St John's Wood though) with a real respect for themselves, their country and heritage so you don't feel like a clod hopping colonial either.
Flights-wise you can fly direct with Sri Lanka Airways who are OK but a bit archaic, or via Dubai with BA.
Bear in mind that the price includes EVERYTHING as alcohol is BYO so it's also actually quite cheap.
For us, this was the perfect formula for relaxing family holidays so if anyone out there knows anyone else doing something similar in other locations, PLEASE, PLEASE share as everywhere we have been since has been a let down.
http://www.tripadvisor.co.uk/Hotel_Revi ... vince.html