by musicalmummy » Thu Apr 25, 2013 10:08 am
Thanks for all your helpful words and advice - I am encouraged that moving, albeit it renting for a while before I buy, is going to be the best I can do - and I think that's the point I've realised matters most to me (genuinely with your help here): if I didn't do everything I could, I feel I would have let my son down - and if I still don't get my son a place Sep 13 or Sep 14, then I at least know I really did try - thanks for your words,
Esbek
Planning for the 2nd May bankholiday to do it ! Will change all the bills and council tax etc - good advice, thanks
broodje
BalhamMumworkingFT - thanks for the advice re living on their doorstep - that's the current dilemma - I have found a reasonably priced place that is 350m away, however I am already worrying it is not close enough, so still keeping my options open a bit. I obviously also need to find a place we will be happy in if we don't get a place.. and my god the prices of the places less than 350m away are so expensive! Almost considering a 1 bed and sleeping on a sofa bed in the living room just to get close!!
Broodje your positivity really helps re waiting and waiting, thank you - I am happy to wait until sep 14 at least, I am so glad to hear that others have eventually got a place... everything comes to those who... thank you!
BalhamMumWorkingFT wrote:I find it hard to believe that at number 25 on the list you are 50meters outside the catchment? Unless clearly stated for priority reasons (ie. Beatrix Potter) there is no catchment. It changes every year.
- do you mean that I should be higher up the list or lower down, here ?
Thanks
madunitedmummy and
Abbevillemummy - really appreciate your support, thank you - it is exactly why I posted, to get some opinions and to discuss my situation with like minded/other mummies - I sort of feel a bit of a burden if I try to talk to non-parent friends about these big issues, rather than just what funny thing my son did this week etc, so appreciate your posts, thanks xx
Papinian - thanks for posting too - I chose the other schools based on Ofsted, location and the attainment the kids reached but the one we were offered was with very poor achievements, despite the teaching being good and is in an area known for social disorder... like I said, another mummy who lives in that school's catchment didn't even put it on her list, even as a no 6 choice. Your link to Lambeth is obviously local promotional material. There are some other good schools, but the ONLY other good ones, apart from our first choice, are faith schools. Now, I can, without losing too much sleep at night, move my home to get my son into a good school... but I cannot fake religious beliefs...
What a great first nappy valley experience - very grateful, thank you
X
Thanks for all your helpful words and advice - I am encouraged that moving, albeit it renting for a while before I buy, is going to be the best I can do - and I think that's the point I've realised matters most to me (genuinely with your help here): if I didn't do everything I could, I feel I would have let my son down - and if I still don't get my son a place Sep 13 or Sep 14, then I at least know I really did try - thanks for your words, [b]Esbek[/b]
Planning for the 2nd May bankholiday to do it ! Will change all the bills and council tax etc - good advice, thanks [b]broodje[/b]
[b]BalhamMumworkingFT[/b] - thanks for the advice re living on their doorstep - that's the current dilemma - I have found a reasonably priced place that is 350m away, however I am already worrying it is not close enough, so still keeping my options open a bit. I obviously also need to find a place we will be happy in if we don't get a place.. and my god the prices of the places less than 350m away are so expensive! Almost considering a 1 bed and sleeping on a sofa bed in the living room just to get close!!
[b]Broodje[/b] your positivity really helps re waiting and waiting, thank you - I am happy to wait until sep 14 at least, I am so glad to hear that others have eventually got a place... everything comes to those who... thank you!
[quote="BalhamMumWorkingFT"]I find it hard to believe that at number 25 on the list you are 50meters outside the catchment? Unless clearly stated for priority reasons (ie. Beatrix Potter) there is no catchment. It changes every year. [/quote] - do you mean that I should be higher up the list or lower down, here ?
Thanks [b]madunitedmummy[/b] and [b]Abbevillemummy[/b] - really appreciate your support, thank you - it is exactly why I posted, to get some opinions and to discuss my situation with like minded/other mummies - I sort of feel a bit of a burden if I try to talk to non-parent friends about these big issues, rather than just what funny thing my son did this week etc, so appreciate your posts, thanks xx
[b]Papinian[/b] - thanks for posting too - I chose the other schools based on Ofsted, location and the attainment the kids reached but the one we were offered was with very poor achievements, despite the teaching being good and is in an area known for social disorder... like I said, another mummy who lives in that school's catchment didn't even put it on her list, even as a no 6 choice. Your link to Lambeth is obviously local promotional material. There are some other good schools, but the ONLY other good ones, apart from our first choice, are faith schools. Now, I can, without losing too much sleep at night, move my home to get my son into a good school... but I cannot fake religious beliefs... 8-)
What a great first nappy valley experience - very grateful, thank you :D X