by NorthcoteLuvvie » Mon Nov 25, 2013 9:06 am
I think this is a good example of a post where we are all getting a bit carried away without thinking about what we are saying.
1. OP wants to INCREASE the pay of her nanny and wants to make sure it's a fair wage. That's wonderful news and something to be applauded, well done!
2. She wants to make sure that nanny feels valued compared to her friends. From the salary quoted I dont think it's too low agaisnt ANY bench mark and a futher check or balance against her friends is womderful. Again a motive to be applauded, well done again!
3. If people have issues with the title of the post that might be your own prejudices reflected back.
4. Was the OP a bit clumsy? Maybe but to be openly criticised and have words like offensive bandied about is ridiculous.
There are lots of bad things in the world we can fix, this is not one of them
Mo on, nothing to see here!!!
I think this is a good example of a post where we are all getting a bit carried away without thinking about what we are saying.
1. OP wants to INCREASE the pay of her nanny and wants to make sure it's a fair wage. That's wonderful news and something to be applauded, well done!
2. She wants to make sure that nanny feels valued compared to her friends. From the salary quoted I dont think it's too low agaisnt ANY bench mark and a futher check or balance against her friends is womderful. Again a motive to be applauded, well done again!
3. If people have issues with the title of the post that might be your own prejudices reflected back.
4. Was the OP a bit clumsy? Maybe but to be openly criticised and have words like offensive bandied about is ridiculous.
There are lots of bad things in the world we can fix, this is not one of them
Mo on, nothing to see here!!!