by SW17 for lyf » Mon Feb 13, 2023 5:31 pm
NVHusband wrote:
> What surprises me is that no one challenges them.
I used to challenge this time and again, directly with the drivers. When I did, they'd invariably get angry, as they know they're in the wrong and can't stand being challenged. Then one of them drove their car (Volvo 4x4, since you ask) directly at me, mounting the pavement to do so. So I stopped challenging them myself!
I now find it's more effective when my son (Y3, cycles to school) talks to them himself - "if you stop like that I can't really see when I need to turn and cross the road - I'm shorter than your car you see", and even "Just don't park on the pavement, it's not there for cars is it?"
Having a child shaming them seems to mean the 'repsonsible' adult's reaction isn't to immediately default to 'shouty aggro' - and maybe, just maybe, they'll think twice the next time.
NVHusband wrote:
> What surprises me is that no one challenges them.
I used to challenge this time and again, directly with the drivers. When I did, they'd invariably get angry, as they know they're in the wrong and can't stand being challenged. Then one of them drove their car (Volvo 4x4, since you ask) directly at me, mounting the pavement to do so. So I stopped challenging them myself!
I now find it's more effective when my son (Y3, cycles to school) talks to them himself - "if you stop like that I can't really see when I need to turn and cross the road - I'm shorter than your car you see", and even "Just don't park on the pavement, it's not there for cars is it?"
Having a child shaming them seems to mean the 'repsonsible' adult's reaction isn't to immediately default to 'shouty aggro' - and maybe, just maybe, they'll think twice the next time.