by lythwood » Tue Jun 29, 2010 11:00 am
I have had a biting baby and it is really difficult so I feel for you. So many people offered me advice to bite him back - but I just couldn't do it! Apart from it feeling completely wrong - surely you are just teaching him that mummy bites too?
Anyway, my son starting biting at about one and is about to turn two and now very very rarely does it. So my thoughts are that, as with most habits, it was just a phase. He tended to do it when specific teeth were coming through or as a defence when another child was taking a toy from him. I have just tried to be consistent and say "no biting" very firmly and from about 18 months, put him in time out.
My advice is do what you think is best and stick with it. So many children go through it, you will probably find that he is bitten, hit, pinched himself before he ever bites another child!
I have had a biting baby and it is really difficult so I feel for you. So many people offered me advice to bite him back - but I just couldn't do it! Apart from it feeling completely wrong - surely you are just teaching him that mummy bites too?
Anyway, my son starting biting at about one and is about to turn two and now very very rarely does it. So my thoughts are that, as with most habits, it was just a phase. He tended to do it when specific teeth were coming through or as a defence when another child was taking a toy from him. I have just tried to be consistent and say "no biting" very firmly and from about 18 months, put him in time out.
My advice is do what you think is best and stick with it. So many children go through it, you will probably find that he is bitten, hit, pinched himself before he ever bites another child!