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Re: Do you know of anyone who has made an affair "work"

Sorry PP but that was quite a harsh post. What I was just trying to say is that sometimes the spark isn't there anymore and there isn't much that can be done. Some people are happy with that and some aren't, I'm one of the latter. I do 'give a toss' about my marriage and I don't want to end it at al...
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Wed Jul 13, 2011 4:11 pm

Re: Do you know of anyone who has made an affair "work"

Gosh there are a lot of us in the same situation! I'm in tears reading all your posts as I feel exactly the same way. I have recently ended the affair as I felt like I wanted more but wasn't prepared to end my marriage, I'm torn as to what to do. I miss him terribly though. All those that say work o...
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Wed Jul 13, 2011 10:18 am

Re: Do you know of anyone who has made an affair "work"

I could have written your post pink panther, nice to hear someone else is going through the same thing. Good or bad. x
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Wed Jul 13, 2011 8:08 am

Re: Do you know of anyone who has made an affair "work"

I just re read your opening post and you said you have gotten close to this man, so it seems it's not just a physical thing. To be honest it didn't affect my marriage as neither of us were ever going to leave our partners and they were never suspicious. Maybe talk about both of your expectations so ...
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Sun Jul 10, 2011 12:02 pm

Re: Do you know of anyone who has made an affair "work"

I guess it depends on how you feel about this man. If you just fancy him physically then I'd say go for it! Not everyone would agree with that advice but it did wonders for me and my low self esteem, it made me feel wanted and alive again so to speak. It gave me something to look forward to and put ...
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Sun Jul 10, 2011 9:41 am

Re: Do you know of anyone who has made an affair "work"

Forgot to add that it actually improved both of our marriages as we were more content and happy and not dwelling on what we weren't getting from our Partners which made home life a lot nicer .
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Sat Jul 09, 2011 10:29 pm

Re: Do you know of anyone who has made an affair "work"

Hello Yes I'm a regular poster and I have been having an affair. I was in a very similar situation to you, my Husband and I got on but there wasn't any real affection there and sex was non existant. I met a man whom I was immediately attracted to and knew that he felt the same way. We started off sl...
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Sat Jul 09, 2011 9:28 pm