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Re: Do you know of anyone who has made an affair "work"

Some people will just never understand as they haven't had to spend one day doing all the childcare. What's the point of being married and having kids if you never see any of them? You might as well be having an affair since you are pretty much leading separate lives anyway. And if people like fathe...
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Tue Jul 26, 2011 10:43 pm

Re: Do you know of anyone who has made an affair "work"

fatherof6, your attitude is precisely the reason why women stray. When I first went on maternity leave my husband also made me feel unappreciated and insignificant. Because I didn't go to work at an office from 9 to 5 I was somehow not as important as him and that I couldn't possibly be more tired a...
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Fri Jul 22, 2011 10:49 pm

Re: Do you know of anyone who has made an affair "work"

Thanks for your sympathy, beenthere. I really do hope you don't find yourself in my situation 10 years from now as even though I said I'd do it all again, I wouldn't wish the emotional roller coaster ride on anyone. You seem to know just as well as I do how difficult it is constantly balancing and b...
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Wed Jul 13, 2011 10:47 pm

Re: Do you know of anyone who has made an affair "work"

Sorry Incognito. I just re-read my post. The second bit about working on your marriage wasn't being directed towards you specifically, although I realise that's how it reads. Just thowing those questions out there as 'not bothered' is how I feel. If you want to work on it then it goes to show you ob...
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Wed Jul 13, 2011 4:49 pm

Re: Do you know of anyone who has made an affair "work"

Incognito, have you broached the subject of no interest in sex with your husband? Perhaps that is a sign he is cheating as well? As for working on your marriage, do you call it quits if the interest to do so just isn't there? I know people will tell me marriage is hard work and that you have to find...
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Wed Jul 13, 2011 3:06 pm

Re: Do you know of anyone who has made an affair "work"

I had an affair with a married man when I was much younger - it was a no stings attached, purely sexual relationship. Then as the years went on it became something more and we realised it wasn't just lust anymore. I tried ending it a few times but he was like an addiction - too hard to break. Then I...
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Tue Jul 12, 2011 7:40 am