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Re: How do you get partner to therapy?

I was in a similar position to Mum2Girlz. Husband had been having therapy due to childhood trauma and chronic insomnia. So, I didn't face the obstacle of having to convince him to "see" the validity of counselling.  Based on what some of my girl friends say, I know a lot of men struggle wi...
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Mon Oct 28, 2024 12:30 pm

Re: New London co-ed senior school

Agree with you, Londongirl. Subtle but not subtle at all. 
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Wed Oct 09, 2024 10:40 am

Re: New London co-ed senior school

Another red flag: owned and run by a private equity firm, Alpha Plus Group. 
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Wed Oct 09, 2024 10:26 am

Re: Did it help partner's career when you gave up work?

Hi  I've been in this position and in my experience, the happiest medium is working part-time. I gave up work for a couple years. I was miserable and resentful. I missed interacting with people in an office environment and being intellectually stimulated. Found it tough not earning my own money.  Wi...
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Sat Oct 05, 2024 3:12 pm

Re: NHS vs Private, and Kensington Wing vs Westminster Maternity Suite

Hi I had my babies at the Westminster Suite at St Thomas’s. Professor Eugene Oteng-Ntim was my obstetrician. I can’t recommend him enough. So kind, knowledgeable and proficient. For my first birth, I ended up needing an emergency caesarean. No delays or issues whatsoever. Professor Oteng-Ntim was th...
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Sun Jun 16, 2024 4:02 pm

Re: Summer holiday resort with good tennis classes

The Ritz Abama in Tenerife is worth checking out. They have some very good coaches.

One of my tennis-mad children had a great time there. We went over Christmas and the weather was radiant.
Replies: 8
Fri May 24, 2024 1:42 pm

Re: Best options for couples therapy

Hi We found our wonderful marriage counsellor via the Awareness Centre. They have a branch in SW4 and also Tooting. We have done it both face-to-face and online (thanks to the lockdowns) with our therapist. I'd only do online if I had met them and build a rapport. It takes courage and perseverance (...
Forum: Wellbeing
Replies: 1
Fri May 24, 2024 1:38 pm

Re: Primary school tutor- Balham

Kate has been tutoring one of my children for the last couple of years and I honestly can't recommend her enough. Not only is she fun and engaging, she's also very experienced. Kate has taught at some highly regarded schools in London. She's so patient and caring and is able to get the best out of c...
Forum: Schools
Replies: 10
Mon May 06, 2024 11:13 am

Re: Will you let your son play rugby?

My father was a very serious rugby player in his youth. He played at his school (one of the top teams in the country) and then a talent spotter asked him to join the Harlequins. He went to university and played there too. He's now in his 70s. Mentally, he is completely lucid, thank goodness. Such a ...
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Fri Sep 15, 2023 10:40 am

Free Parkgate House nursery uniform

Hi

I have various sets of Parkgate House nursery uniforms for boys- both winter and summer.

Very happy to give them away for free in exchange for a donation to local charity Little Village.

If you are interested, please message me. We are based in SW4. Thank you.
Replies: 0
Wed Jun 07, 2023 1:26 pm

Re: How do I get my husband off his phone, becoming a real problem for me.

Hi That sounds really tough. I can completely see how having a partner who is constantly on their phone would lead to the other person feeling insignificant, lonely and isolated. It also sets a bad example for young people. There’s also the detrimental health impacts of excessive technology use. Ple...
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Tue May 02, 2023 11:09 am

Re: When do i need to take my daughter's dummy away?

Hi My youngest is 6 and she still sucks and sniffs a little muslin rag (we have a few which we rotate). It’s mainly at night although we allow it for flights, long car journeys, etc. She’s very attached to it and it brings her great comfort. We consulted a dentist and chatted to our daughter about h...
Forum: Childcare
Replies: 6
Sat Apr 29, 2023 5:42 pm

Re: Hourly rates for cleaners/housekeepers in London

Hi We pay our cleaner 15 pounds an hour and are based in Clapham Common / Clapham South. She comes twice a week. We don't pay for sickness or holidays. If we are away, we ask if she would like to come in and clean areas that are not usually covered in the weekly clean (for instance, the utility room...
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Mon Apr 24, 2023 12:46 pm

Re: Prep schools with the most 'academic' reputations

Could not agree more with Dudette. Wait and see what your children are into, what skills and qualities they develop. They are still so small. You have a good list of schools there. I’d also think about the pros and cons of co-ed versus single sex schools. Bear in mind that Dolphin is very much a Chr...
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Tue Feb 07, 2023 10:23 am

Re: Family coaching??? Does this exist?

Hi - I can relate to your post in so many ways. Everything you have noted is agonisingly familiar. Over the years our children’s incessant fighting has left me and my husband utterly exhausted and dispirited! Ours have fought bitterly pretty much since day 1. Dudette in her post makes a very valid p...
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Mon Jan 16, 2023 11:06 am