Same here. Mid 30s with 2 small children and yet to pass I have taken lessons on and off between pregnancies and before but the steps back have left me with little confidence. Would prefer to use a manual though...
I highly recommend Simon Morris from Direct Drive.
I only passed two years ago and it took me a few go's but he was always patient and helpful and has a great team too. Im not sure what areas they cover though but he's certainly worth a try. I've popped a link below. Good luck x