Ha!
That is tough.
I have to say that I don't think private matters in the early days but it bloody matters later.
My neighbour reckons HALF of the kids in her kids year 5 class are being tutored! Half! And thats state because they're paranoid they won't pass the private school exams for "big" school.
Now if state is so good, why are they being tutored?
Just asking!