Hi Rachel.
Sorry, long post alert!
You need to be careful with this question as every man and their dog will have an opinion based on their wildly differing schemes and experiences.
There is no such thing as a 'typical' side return and i'd suggest you ignore anyone that hasn't seen your design/schedules/scope of works/site constraints/timeframe.....you get the idea.
I spent last week on the Ask An Expert feature at the Grand Designs LIVE exhibition providing free design consultations and the question of budget/cost came up a lot!
The truth is you will never know the cost of your project until you've got a full design package and have 3-4 tender prices from contractors. You could also pay a Quantity Surveyor to cost your project and give a baseline for comparison but this desktop appraisal doesn't portray what is available in 'real-life' (how busy/profit margins/leadtimes/standard of finish/reputation/site management etc)
I also guarantee everything will be more expensive that you first thought!
If you are employing an architect/QS/designer and are paying for a tendering service where they analyse the tender returns and negotiate with your contractors, they should be helping to bring your scheme down within budget. This is where the professional consultant should not only be adding value to your scheme, but working with all parties (including you) to design what's realistic within your budget.
Were you open with your budget to your architect? I often ask for a clients budget and get a very coy answer. As designers we need to know what to design within and manage expectations.
What i would say is that if what you've described is a whole house refurb ("the house also needs re-wiring, all new floors and re-plastering/decorating") together with the side and rear return and minor alterations will certainly cost £100k+.
I'm writing a blog currently (to be released in the coming weeks) that should help homeowners get a realistic idea of what to budget for their home improvement works based on floor areas. Try this for a high level appraisal (cost to face of wall finish, kitchen excluded)
New single storey extension cost between £1500-2500 per m2 (broad range, I know)
Major structural openings - £5-10k (depends on complexity)
Internal refubishment (back to brick, plastering, wiring, finishes) - £750 per m2
Cosmetic upgrades - up to £500 per m2 depending on finishes
Chimney removals £2000-5000 per chimney
mid-range 3-piece bathroom - £3000 'shell' plus £3000 sanitary ware and finishes
Kitchen.....depends on taste!
I'm sorry that I couldn't give a definitive answer here but there are just too many variables.
I'd be happy to discuss your scheme further on the phone if you send over your details and design package to
benrichards@aurahomes.co.uk
Kind Regards
Ben Richards
Director
Aura Homes