Postby coldatchristmas » Sat Dec 21, 2019 10:59 pm
Its not so much the academic gap, although that is there, but it's the way the schools are structured.
The majority of indy prep schools are focused on learning, development (obviously) but mainly gearing their children to a place at a competitive indy secondary school.
It's become more and more competitive to get into these schools and so for the "average" child, they will stand a better chance of getting into a competitive indy school if they go to a good indy prep.
The whole of the last 12 months or so will be spent doing exam practice for the 11plus, mock interviews, helping parents choose the right school (Alleyns versus Dulwich versus Whitgift versus Emanuel versus S&C etc and they are all very different) and for the child there is some comfort in the fact that everyone else is in the same boat, i.e. going for the 11+.
Honeywell and Ravenstone and Belleville and BP all of these are wonderful schools but they don't have this emphasis as there is an assumption that there intakes will continue to go state.
Before everyone jumps in and says "yes but I know loads of kids who went private after these schools..." then yes they are right, but it's not all of them. It really is 99% for the indy preps.
So the answer to your question is, I think, where do you want them to go later in life? If it's a state grammar or Bolingbroke then you have a difficult decision, if it's into the indy sector then I think you need to look at indy from the start, or at least relatively soon ("state will eight" really is a rule of thumb!).
Hope that helps