Postby ellesmum » Mon Feb 27, 2012 10:21 am
To be honest, this subject DOES annoy me! We are "genuine" renters who have found ourselves unable to afford the rents close to the "good" schools in the area (in fact, we are now stuck in a no-mans-land for schools, with the closest being High View, 650m away), part of the reason being that parents are abusing the system in order to get their children into the desirable schools. Whilst it may be legal to play the system in this manner, what is the difference between a middle class parent who can afford to rent a second home in order to get their brood into Belleville or Honeywell doing so, & "dirty working class" parents popping out child after child in order to take advantage of the generous benefits system? In my mind, there is not much difference - both are exploiting loopholes in the system in order to benefit themselves, which aren't illegal but are immoral. I am not talking about the people who delay moving in order to win places, or who genuinely have to move out of the catchment area (unfortunately, unscrupulous landlords often raise the rents by astronomical amounts year on year because they think renters would rather pay the extra than uproot themselves), but the people who deliberately set out to work the system. The ones who rent a home for 6 months or a year in order to get the school place, never intending to stay there. By the sounds of it, Belleville & Honeywell are almost being turned into State run private schools - your children can only go there if you are privileged enough to be able to afford to buy or rent within a few hundred meters of the school. They are becoming elitist.
My own daughter is due to start school in September & I am terrified about the school issues. I want her to get a good education, as do all parents, but more importantly, I want her to have a good school experience. I want her to be happy with whatever school she is in - if she is happy, then the willingness to learn will come naturally, even if that means us having to work hard with her at home to further her knowledge. I would undoubtedly like her to go to Belleville or Honeywell, not so much because of the excellent results, but because we took her to them for the open days & she was immediately happy & relaxed in the environments & has talked about how excited she is to start big school ever since. However, I know that the likelihood of her getting into either is near zero. I am almost resigned to her being offered a place at High View. Despite knowing that it is a decent enough school which is improving all the time, I am worried because I feel that accepting a place at a school which is possibly going to be a very good school is taking a gamble over getting her into an already very good school. But, having read posts from parents on here stating that they see no problems with cheating their way into the good schools, or that they have no issues with someone else's child losing out so that their child can have something, I am starting to wonder whether a school like High View may be better for her moral education. I do not want her peers teaching her that the best way to get what she wants in life is to lie & cheat her way to them. It is certainly not what we teach her at home, & I don't want her learning that at school.