We have been to Florida a few times and I have to say that with a small family there is nothing better than staying at a villa in a gated community.We stayed in hotels before we had our daughter but after that we are hooked on a villa!
-We were able to have a separate bedroom for our daughter (and friends kids) and one for ourself (we took the baby monitor with us so totally relaxed)
-We were able to watch TV / cook etc without having to worry about waking the children on days we were at home in evenings
-Some hotels do not have baths only showers
- We were able to have dinner outside next to the private pool vs having to take our daughter down to the restaurants in a hotel or elsewhere
- We had our own private pool!
and the pools at the villas by law have to have a child safety fence which gave us peace of mind if we were not outside
- It was only 15-20 minutes from the Disney parks and 30 minutes from Universal. 45 minutes from the airport and there was restaurants, supermarket, petrol station, bank, pharmacy all within 5-10 minutes from the place.
Overall it worked out so much cheaper than booking a Disney hotel or some other hotel.
To navigate the parks you have already had a lot of good advice above, get there early!, plan before you go on what you want to do, check schedules for all the shows etc so you can fit it in. Watch the fireworks and spend at least one day in each park. But, with smaller children take a rest day in between and stay at home, play in the pool and recharge, kids need to be rested to really enjoy it.
Here is a link to the villa we rented which was fab! 4 beds (2 double, 2 twin. 3 bathrooms).
http://www.ipgflorida.com/Reservation/D ... 3a32230a58
You can see the availability on the link but if you e mail
Kevin.mcnair1973@gmail.com (the owner) he will give you a discount as he has to pay commission to the company who manage it otherwise.
We love Florida and Disney and plan to go back to this place again next year!