Hello VHopeful
I think all the above advice is brilliant.
I would just add that having a Doula can also be very assuring. I am a doula and have supported women who have had a traumatic birth experience and gone on to have wonderful VBAC births the second time around.
Have a look at
www.doulauk.org for more information about what doulas do and see if it might be for you.
I wholeheartedly recommend Maggie Howell's natalhynotherapy. She does have a CD for women who previously had a c-section and are hoping for a VBAC.
I'm not about plugging my own services, but if you'd like to, feel free to contact me through
www.birthbright.com or through Doula UK.
All the very best,
Sarah Pearman
www.birthbright.com