Postby Cupcakesw12 » Thu Oct 10, 2013 4:27 pm
Hello Medway,
Happy to share on the forum, already had my knuckles wrapped for daring to suggest I wanted to send our little one to Kumon classes!!
And yes, I do not wish to re-ignite the whole Rutherford House string (what am I missing here, why has the string you started had over 2800 views in 10 days?!) so I hope by answering your question with my honest opinion/feelings, I do not get attacked again.
From my other postings, I have shared our experiences on how we have gone about trying to select a primary school for our daughter, and my husband and I have pretty much visited all the primary schools in the area to try and really get a real feel of what primary schools have to offer.
First and foremost, we want a safe nurturing environment for our little one to grow and develop and be as happy as possible. I want to be able to trust the leadership staff of the school, and this is where my issue arises. I am going to relate two separate incidents (out of many that I have become aware of) which have occurred during Rutherford open days either attended by us or our friends.
The first was an open event where our friends met the headmistress. Out of many of the questions she was asked and found difficult to answer, one was about catchment distances- now the answer they were expecting was “the standard speak” one in metres, what distance range the current entry were coming from (all headteachers will have access to this information from their present years entry, Tooting Primary did), but they were told 5-10 minutes drive (?!) from the school, a completely baffling answer and one you could see left the group quite puzzled.
The second was the open event which I mention above in which the ratios were quoted as 1:4, again baffling especially as financially it would be near impossible and we note that there have been no new recruitment ads anywhere for TAs since they appointed their first two (or maybe they are appointing internally, I know not). So we left in a hurry as we simply did not want to hear anything else that did not make sense or tally with what we had learnt from all our other visits.
We now know of at least 10 sets of parents (I have been talking to the majority of them this week) who have attended the open days and there seems to be a consensus of opinion regarding being left a little confused after their visit. Could this all be related to the intense focus on free schools and what is/has been transpiring e.g Discovery, Derby, Pimlico, free school meals stats etc, again I don’t know, but what I do know is that I have always trusted my gut and it tells me this will not be the right place for our little one because we simply do not think we can trust the leadership.
Hope that answers your question.