Wow! C section vs homebirth, breast feeding vs formaula and now small cars vs 4 x 4's. No topic is off limits for judging other women! So, there are road hogs in all types of cars. I see people on mobiles, texting, lipstick, etc. in small and big cars. I actually dislike motorcycles speeding up out of no where next to me and then cutting me off.
As far as CO2 emissions and big car owners not caring about the environment for their children, bla bla, I would do the research first. Eating on omnivorous diet that is not organic and free pastured contributes more to destroying the earth than driving an SUV. So a vegetarian or vegan who carries a reusable water bottle, recycles, reuses and limits spending, but drives an SUV is doing a better service to the planet than a factory farm meat eater who buys bottles of Evian but drives a Prius!
We had a small BMW (company car) that was easy to navigate on these narrow roads. I loved it, but my husband's head hit the ceiling and now we have another child. But it just got turned in for a large Range Rover Sport (company car again) to fit my now expanded family. I LOVE driving it. It rides so much smoother. But I am super vigilant about backing up and parking. Yes, it worries me about children and animals. But I couldn't care less about status symbol. I'd take whatever car his company wants to give us. No car payment and no insurance cots!