Postby Btc_mum » Mon Mar 11, 2024 8:39 am
I had all my babies at C&W but the process was that either I or the doctor referred me shortly after I found out I was pregnant, then I got a letter through a few weeks later giving me an appointment for a booking appointment (admin and blood tests) and a scan, both for when I was around 12 weeks.
They weren’t on the same day, and usually the booking appointment was first, but for one of them, the scan was first
I didn’t have any contact with a midwife before this, and nor did I need any. There is nothing they can tell you at this stage that isn’t common sense - don’t drink alcohol, avoid the foods you should avoid.
I’m not aware of any screening that should happen before your booking appointment either?
I think you can have a private Harmony test from 10 weeks if you wish, but that’s not a requirement
I mean this very kindly, but I know when you first find out you’re pregnant, it feels like a very big deal that the world should be instantly reacting to. But the system doesn’t really kick in until you’re 12 weeks, so not hearing anything is not any sort of indication that they are doing something wrong
Please also remember that maternity services are stretched to the absolute limit after decades of under funding. The London hospitals all do incredibly well considering how busy they are, but endlessly ringing them up to chase an appointment that is still weeks away from happening is not going to help an already overstretched department to deliver service to women