Postby Guested » Mon Sep 16, 2024 7:49 am
I did want to mention that EHCPs have far wider criteria than people are told.
One of mine is academically very gifted; she has 99.9 centile scores in educational psychology testing, and has since she was small. She's also got severe anxiety and social and emotional struggles. We realised she was a "hidden autistic" because family members are, so we had her assessed by an ed psych, OT and SLT and then secured an EHCP. She attends a small independent school funded by that EHCP and the autism diagnosis was made shortly after starting. She is thriving, after becoming genuinely unwell in state mainstream in KS1.
You're told LA policy, which tends to be that a child must be at least two years behind, or have massive psychiatric struggles to the point they're violent. None of that is true - they must just have needs that can't be met by standard provision, even with extras that cost up to £6000. To prove that need, you either need the reports, or to have provable damage caused by unmet need that acts as its own evidence.
A parent paying for one of three kids to attend independent knows the needs are there. I would suggest assessment, because even a small independent can't meet needs nobody has identified. I'm happy to recommend those experts - they need to be what are called "medico-legal" clinicians so they write reports that include recommendations for enforceable provision. If the needs aren't there then at least you know! I look on it as being like prenatal testing, or car seats, and anyone sensible hopes it's a waste of money. But if it is needed, you badly need to have spent on it.
Independent is a choice for most, and that's fine. But not always a choice, and if it isn't, it is highly likely that the child has additional, unknown and therefore unmet, needs that underlie the parent's decision to move them. I would get those assessments done, as unmet need can cause real harm. Autism and ADHD can be complex, and subtle in presentation, and so can eg dyspraxia. It affects mental health terribly, long term, as the child eventually inculcates a sense that their needs are just character failings.