Postby LostInTranslation » Thu Sep 27, 2012 7:48 pm
I was very upset to come home from work today to find that my son's bike was stolen from out in front of our flat. We live Between the Commons.
He's a student at Graveney School and had no school today due to teacher training. So he rang me at work this morning asking if he could go out and meet his friends in Tooting. He wanted to take his bike but as he had a puncture in his back tire, I asked that he leave the bike home.
I came home on my lunch hour at about 1.45pm to do some chores and noticed that the bike was gone so figured that, as teenagers do, he decided to ignore my suggestion that it was a bad idea to take it.
I came home at 6pm to find that my son was in but the bike was not...
I asked where the bike was and he replied that it should be outside as he didn't take it because I asked him not to.
We have a planter bike lock and my neighbour, who is a keen cyclist, has been safely securing her bike to it for more than 6 months. I had only just finally relented and agreed to let my son keep his bike outside LAST WEEK.
I am a single parent who is working all the hours god sends to keep this RENTED roof over our heads and food in our refrigerator. We don't take holidays, we don't eat out, we have no car and we won't turn on the central heating until we can see our breath in this flat. I don't drink or smoke. I am in my 40's, university educated, have never been unemployed yet have never had it as hard as these past few years since the recession hit.
There are, as we all know, cheaper places to live than Between the Commons, but I settled here 8 years ago when I first moved to London to undertake a full time degree at university as a (very) mature student. For those of you that have lived here as long or longer than I, you'll be able to confirm the fact that the cost associated with living here in Battersea have skyrocketed during that time.
Despite achieving a 2:1 at a top university, I have struggled to find work that pays a living wage. Ironically, I thought that education would help pave the road for a better future. I wanted to show my son by example that it is never too late to change your life for the better. It was unfortunate that my graduation coincided with the start of the recession. This has had a severe impact on my career options.
I'm really sorry to digress so much from the original subject of my post but I am completely shaken by today's events. I know it isn't as serious a crime as some of the mothers on NVN have experienced but for me and my son, it is a major violation and something that will have long term repercussions for us.
I work my a** off from the minute I wake up to the minute I go to sleep just to try and stay in this flat, in this neighbourhood. It has nothing to do with the 'prestige' of living here but everything to do with my desire for my son to have as much stability as possible. As a single woman living alone with a child, safety was a concern. And as someone who grew up near the ocean with loads of trees and greenery around, I also wanted to be in a place where we I felt we could breathe. This is how I chose to live here.
This is my home. This is my community. I live here. I work here.
I'm not so naive to think that everyone that lives here is wealthy - though there is, clearly, a lot of money here. I just wish that the people who stole from us, didn't make the assumption that we could afford to lose that bike. I'd like to be zen about it and say that I hope that they needed that bike more than we do - but after a week spent scraping by on our last few pounds before payday, I somehow doubt they do.
I have reported this to the police using the 101 number and am waiting for them to call to file the official report and get a crime reference number. I keep all receipts and records for everything I purchase. I have the frame number of the bike but unfortunately never registered it with the police.
We had the seat of the bike inside the flat and it is a very distinctive looking bike which will now be ridden with no seat or a mis-matched one. I have a photo of the seat which I might add to this post tomorrow.
As all the other posts have mentioned, please don't be lulled into a false sense of security living here. Yes, it is a LOT safer than many places in London BUT, it is an area known for it's wealth so just keep your wits about you and your belongings secure.