Postby Beancounter » Mon Sep 10, 2018 6:21 am
Thanks for your suggestions. Someone who has done it popped up and it’s quite straightforward it seems. Go to the provider with divorce papers showing agreement. It’s a local authority pension . She can’t afford a lawyer. It’s tale of a woman being brought up by her idiot mother to think someone else would always support her. No provision made for herself and in the short term the people supporting her are myself and my husband. He’s retired so I’m indirectly supporting a woman younger than myself who still thinks she’s got choices about whether or not she earns a living. The story involves my sister in law living in Hungary, her man dying in Liege where he worked, an undivorced wife in Canada, a potential Other Woman and a Bernese Mountain Dog who, before you ask, is being happily rehomed.
I’m furious with the stupid woman who had no access to his bank and sat in Hungary complacent for 15 years. But I’m thinking of writing the book... you couldn’t make it up...