by takenaback » Sun Jun 09, 2019 11:31 am
My almost 80 year old Father in Law was widowed about 18 months ago.
He has coped relatively well and has two children who have rallied to make the situation as bearable as possible. However it has become obvious that he will soon need more regular help than a weekend visit allows.
My husband has raised the idea of him coming to live with us.
He is a lovely man but caring for an elderly father in law alongside soon to be secondary school age children of our own wasn't what I thought would be happening and to be honest isn't what I want to happen.
Has anyone else been in this situation and how did you resolve it?
I totally understand that we do need to help, and that he may end up living with us, but I do want to explore all the options and in a way that won't wreck my marriage.
Thank you.
My almost 80 year old Father in Law was widowed about 18 months ago.
He has coped relatively well and has two children who have rallied to make the situation as bearable as possible. However it has become obvious that he will soon need more regular help than a weekend visit allows.
My husband has raised the idea of him coming to live with us.
He is a lovely man but caring for an elderly father in law alongside soon to be secondary school age children of our own wasn't what I thought would be happening and to be honest isn't what I want to happen.
Has anyone else been in this situation and how did you resolve it?
I totally understand that we do need to help, and that he may end up living with us, but I do want to explore all the options and in a way that won't wreck my marriage.
Thank you.