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Re: Yr 6 boy adhd

I hear you and from the gist of your comments, you are well-versed in the challenges of ADHD. My ADHD son is in secondary now and I have had & continue to be very instrumental in initiating and retaining friendships, via other mothers, often in extremely challenging circumstances. This is what h...
Forum: Schools
Replies: 30
Tue May 16, 2023 4:42 pm

Has anyone got good references for Mark Solan, a painter based in SW16

Hi, has anyone got any feedback on a painter for stripping, painting windows my roofer has recommended. He´s called Mark Solan and is based in SW16. Many thanks 
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Wed Feb 22, 2023 12:50 pm

Has anyone got good references for Instant Maintenance Services?

 Hello, need some external and interior maintenance done on sash windows and French doors (wood, cills etc). Anyone got good references for    Instant Maintenance Services   a :  26-32 Voltaire Road, Clapham SW4 6DH p :  [url=tel:02075014043]02075014043[/url] e :  Susanna@instantmaintenanceservices....
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Thu Jan 19, 2023 5:41 pm

Re: taking early inheritance for schools fees

Could you fund your kids' last 2 years so that they did A Levels only at a private school if you (and they) were still convinced that was the right option nearer the time?  Ultimately it comes down to how much of a dent in your mother´s estate her funding your children´s education would make for the...
Forum: Schools
Replies: 13
Tue Jan 10, 2023 10:06 pm

Re: 8 year old boy - lying behaviour

I have had the same experiences and recommend the following with all my heart: 1)Listen to this podcast from Ari Tuckman and read his work on children lying - it will really help you understand where they´re coming from https://takecontroladhd.com/podcast/426 He was written extensively about it too....
Replies: 9
Tue Jun 07, 2022 1:23 pm

Re: Hormone imbalance/ peri menopause specialist

I really recommend Postcards from the Midlife podcast to keep you informed, amused and sane... its FB page is a mine of useful info. The podcast has wide appeal and a vibrant following.
Forum: Schools
Replies: 13
Mon Jan 31, 2022 8:33 am

Re: coffee morning mothers having a go at my son and me without realising I was in the room

I sympathise, having been in your situation years ago. The trauma from trying to fix my son´s behaviour is still with me. I attempted to hide it for ages from the rest of the mums from embarrassment, whilst other mums were calling me directly to complain as was the school - constantly. I cannot reco...
Replies: 14
Mon Nov 01, 2021 6:53 pm

Cost of rebuild for buildings insurance

Hello, over 10 years ago my builder mentioned  that the approximate rebuild cost would be in the region of £500k for our 5-bed house in SW12...anyone agree or disagree with this figure?
Replies: 1
Thu Apr 08, 2021 6:19 pm

2nd hand curtain shop?

Hello, I gather The Curtain Exchange closed down....does anyone know of another reasonably local place that can sell my old curtains? 
Replies: 1
Mon Mar 22, 2021 10:13 am

Local curtainmaker required

I am looking for a local curtainmaker to replace some curtains in our house. 
Replies: 2
Sun Mar 21, 2021 10:45 pm

Re: Does your son at Emanuel, Ibstock or Graveney play video games?

My son is in Yr 8 and has 0 video games or mobile phone. In yr 6 and 7 he did feel alienated at times due to not playing fortnite with many peers. However, we enriched his life with other "toys" and activities as opposed to banning them with no substitute. It is totally true that many boys...
Replies: 15
Sun Mar 21, 2021 10:43 pm

Re: am i the only one in Clapham without hundreds of friends

Hi Tableforone.... Such is my penchant for chocolate I actually read your user name as Toblerone....never mind... Well done you for airing your feelings!  The replies have all had great advice in them. One thing that struck me...whilst you appreciate the ideas and offers of company you mention you´l...
Replies: 22
Mon Mar 01, 2021 5:47 pm

Re: ADD/ADHD - diagnosis recommendation

Huge thank you to Gemima who mentioned Rachel Gow, I have just looked at her website and the blogs have a lot of useful information in their real life stories. I would also like to mention all the North American gurus, whose webinars have helped me along my own journey with our son: Dr Gordon Neufel...
Replies: 9
Wed Dec 09, 2020 1:06 pm

Howard Fairbrass - excellent handyman, missing!

Hello,  does anyone know of Howard Fairbrass who was brilliant at doing lots of maintenance on my property. He then seems to have stopped answering any form of communication. Does anyone know of his whereabouts or status? I did hear that he may have moved to the Cotswolds but it seems odd that he wa...
Replies: 0
Wed Dec 09, 2020 12:34 pm

Re: 19 year old seeking help with confidence & motivation

What a lovely friend you are and it sounds like your friend´s son will need some mentoring support. Please talk to The Parent Practice based in Clapham. One of the co-director enlisted a lot of support from her own son´s university for exactly the symptoms you describe. Elaine Halligan and her colle...
Replies: 8
Mon Sep 21, 2020 4:37 pm