Why do you need to marry and blend now? Why not wait until your daughter is 18?
How many nights will you have his children and what role are you expecting to play for them?
Main differences Coed vs Single Sex
Language offering is more diverse at Whitgift and I assume Trinity
Sport hugely better at Whitgift and Trinity
Lunch better at W&T
You can put your proposed house details into this calculator BCIS Public Rebuild Calculator
You have to register but it's free to use
It gives me £458,000 as the rebuild cost for a 4 bed terrace in SW12
Yes fees will most likely go up again in Sept 2025 - I would expect 5% minimum
The schools are losing business rates relief in April 2025 and school fees have historically risen annually at a rate above inflation