Postby Swanladu2000 » Mon Nov 22, 2021 9:37 am
I have been with my husband for 40 years, since I was 15. I love him immensely and he loves me, but intimacy is also a problem now.
We have been on the verge of spliting up, but I missed him and I can't imagine a life with him not being there, supporting me and loving me.
A few month ago I bought a book called the adventure challenge couples edition and we have to scratch off boxes that will reveal dates and challenges we have to do together. It completely takes you out your comfort zone and some are quite silly, but you can't scratch off the next one till you complete it so we do them and you know what? Even though we cringed, the dates have been fantastic and we feel like young teenagers again, it's been the best and cheapest therapy ever!