I probably should know, he has told me and we take financial planning seriously but if asked on the spot I would not be sure! When you add variable and things it gets murky. I don't think is a mistrust question.
She didn't know any indications at all???
We also have separate accounts and a joint house one where we pay all expenses and we contribute in a proportionate way with our salaries.
He is American with all the tax mess that creates so have to be smart about things