Can anyone advise me how I can get my husband to give up smoking.
He's smoked since he went off to uni ( he's now 45) but stopped when he had a health scare a few years ago but I've recently discovered that he's secretly smoking again. I am absolutely distraught, cross, worried and more.
In an outpouring of guilt he confessed that the various stresses of the last year meant that he had started up again. He promised to make it a New Year resolution to stop but I'm not sure that he has ....I'm not sure how best to handle it.
Is there anyone out there with any tips/ideas etc? I'm not sure that my constant pleading or highlighting the health risks will work but his parents don't know and I am wondering if outing him to them or using the threat as leverage would work? He obviously knows what he's doing to himself...