I haven't even got the role yet but i have seen an advert and applied for a position where I'd be a live in nanny in a country side role. Duties include care of horses and chickens so I am guessing very rural, age of children is what I prefer, days and hours seem great... It is basically my dream job and i just had to apply for the position.
Reality has now hit me unfortunately. Me and my partner live together currently... 95 miles away from where this job is. He is happy at his job and only just started there.
If (and only if) I get this role how would I approach asking if he could move into the annexe with me? I would never consider this if it wasn't a separate accommodation that is being offered, I wouldn't feel comfortable having him interacting with the family etc in their own home. Unfortunately on the live in salary we couldn't afford to rent anywhere in the area for him to live in as he doesnt have a job there, we would never pass the affordability check. He would be giving up his job for me to take this position and hoping to find something nearby. I wouldn't want to conceal the intentions of him having to come live here to for me to take the job from the family. I want to be honest and upfront but delicately put it.
What do you think of him staying in the annexe with me? If you were the family would you agree to this?