how many arguments is too many?

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batandball
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how many arguments is too many?

Postby batandball » Fri Sep 24, 2021 12:36 pm

Would anyone be happy to share how many arguments you have with your partner in a week. We seem to arguing increasing frequently and I don't know if it is normal to argue nearly every day or whether I need to be worried. Thanks for reading.
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coldatchristmas
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Re: how many arguments is too many?

Postby coldatchristmas » Fri Sep 24, 2021 2:05 pm

I would say t depends what sort of arguments they are. We have gone through phases of having lots of mini disagreements, usually based on logistics for children and balancing work commitments. If they are these sorts of arguments i would say a few a week is ok, if they are bigger arguments that aren't being resolved then maybe you need a time out to work out why these are on the increase. Good luck!
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Re: how many arguments is too many?

Postby clare74 » Mon Sep 27, 2021 10:02 am

I think it varies per couple so hard to say what's normal/concerning.

If you both want to stop, then a brilliant person to help with this is Sally https://thelisteningroom.co/. She's got some good resources (video etc) on her website which might be worth starting with.
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