Postby Momgetsit » Mon Mar 06, 2023 9:43 am
A mediator will not tell you what to do. You can have individual sessions with them to say what you want and that you do not feel heard. But at the end of th day you both have to agree.
If he is not doing that and if you think your daughter’s mental health and happiness is at risk, you should be seeing a lawyer.
There was a particular clause we could not agree to about the caring of the kids. I made it clear at mediation this would be the one point I would go to court for. He would not agree and the mediator asked him to ask for legal advice. Interestingly, he agreed immediately in our next session.
He can be unreasonable with you, but a judge will put kids interest first. A plan where she moves home every two days is not that. You need to forget this man was your partner and start looking at this as a business meeting. He can be as unreasonable as he wants with you, but you need to have your priorities and fight for them.
Good luck. And if you want to private message me, I am happy to talk.
You are doing great xx