Postby FLH03 » Wed Jan 18, 2017 3:11 pm
My husband snores every single night, regardless of his sleeping position, how tired he is, the amount of beer on board or whether he has a cold or not. It causes me real problems, trying to get to sleep as well as waking me up, and it's damaging our relationship as I often wake up resenting him, it can be even hating him some mornings.
I have not found anything that is a miracle cure, sorry. I don't like ear plugs as I want to be able to hear the children. Friends' husbands have had throat lasering surgery that seems to work only in the very short term (mainly because the men are in so much agony that they can't sleep anyway!!).
One small positive point - I bought a Boots snoring throat spray for my husband and that gave a bit of relief - I think mainly because by using this, he was acknowledging it was his problem, taking some ownership to do something about it, and was aware of this every bed time. I picked up a card for a snoring consultant at our GP practice, despite me asking repeatedly husband has not gone.
Some of this is genetic - his father has sleep apnoea, and has to have a mask at night, some of it is being a bit tubby, some of it is definitely ageing, as many friends now suffering the same too. However it is not the same volume or type of snoring all night so it can't be foregone conclusion that this is just the way it has to be (I hope). I look forward to hearing any other advice and guidance, and you have my understanding and sympathy.