Papinian, I am sure that you are flattered by the attention. Isn't that why your posts are provocative and often off topic? You want the attention
You are right, I am a lawyer (talk about stalker/creepy, that you know my profession) and as a lawyer I am trained to question what is being said and, where necessary, to challenge it. I am quite used to people like you- saying things, with conviction, believing that they will not be challenged because of the confidence with which they express themselves. If you believe that I challenge or comment too often on threads on which you have "contributed" it is probably because it is virtually impossible to read any thread on NVN without coming across your posts.....and, in my opinion, if someone expresses themselves with little or no regard for consequences, decency or truth, then they should be prepared to be challenged. Bottom line- I will challenge and tease you as often as I like (not least because you always, always become hysterical and it's quite funny
As for the rest of your post......
......but regarding this topic/thread:
Thaoly10 eloquently explained to you why she was looking for a French doctor and, because of your reaction to her post, did feel the need to defend herself. You should do more than justify your reaction to her post- be decent and apologise.