I'm sorry to hear of your challenges but it's great that you're being proactive and looking at the best options.
I've had many clients over the years who have been very pleased with the Lister, they are very professional and offer an excellent service. However, it's worth remembering that people's views may depend on whether they have a successful outcome or not so it's important to feel confident in your own conclusions and gut instinct as to which clinic is best for you.
If you're feeling anxious about it all then I'd be happy to speak to you - I'm a clinical hypnotherapist, specialising in fertility, pregnancy and birth for the past 20 years.
Hypnotherapy can be a gamechanger for many women/couples as it will help to create the positive mindset and environment that is needed for conception. The techniques and positive mindset often lead to physical change in the body. You've probably heard stories of women conceiving 'when they'd stopped trying', 'when they moved house/changed job', 'when they moved on from an emotional situation' or were no longer making pregnancy their one and only priority.
A positive mindset can really help you feel better and can even make all the difference to getting pregnant or not.
Feel free to contact me for a chat, no obligations, simply to find out more.
Wishing you all the best,