my husband (her son) is not supported enough in his work (I work as well.) It is my fault he is not more succesful (because I haven't helped him in his career) as though she thinks my stressful commute and job I can barely tolerate are selfish lifestyle choices
- Goodness - this is my MIL are you sure we don't share a husband
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If it wasn't for me my husband would be running the United Nations don't you know! Nor am I thin enough or pretty enough!! Glad to hear someone else has it too! Weirdly she avoided being around my kids when they were babies, wouldn't hold them, had no pictures of them in the house. Generally took no interest in them at all, (just used to follow my husband around if she visited) but now they are both in the junior years at school she suddenly has become quite pleasant to them. My youger one is wary as he hasn't really got a bond with her! I don't have an answer to your plight but my good friend is a family therapist and she insisted I never let my husband and boys visit her without me as it just entrenches the divide even further. Things are tolerable for me now but I wish you the best of luck!