by littlebitloopy » Mon Mar 31, 2014 10:06 am
Firstly, I can assure you that your husband is not strange or a bad person for doing this. This is a conversation that's come up so many times with my girlfriends, however, while all of us are aware that our men watch ******, we all have different feelings about it.
The way you are feeling is not abnormal, so don't feel like you're being a prude! I'd say it's the way you approach the situation which is what could become an issue. I understand that you may feel a little insecure and that is normal, but please remember that we all have a little fantasy.. while us women can be a little more imaginative, it seems men find it easier to access theirs via the Internet.
My friend feels exactly the way you do, generally, she has quiet a low self esteem. I'm not assuming you are in the same boat, but if you feel you might be, then maybe try and work on that.. hit the gym, get your nails done. Start to feel sexy without the tackiness!
Fantasies can be very private to people, would you be able to share yours with him? I honestly turn bright red thinking about sharing mine!..
I'm sure your husband loves you to bits and if you was to discuss this with him he'd reassure you. Just allow him his boy time. Maybe consider having a little look yourself, plenty of women enjoy ****** too. Lots of ****** sites have woman friendly soft ****** now. Its not half as intimidating as it seems, I promise you.
If you are concerned about your children gaining access, then just mention that they're at a curious age and you feel a password might serve you both well.
Good luck with what ever you decide to do
Firstly, I can assure you that your husband is not strange or a bad person for doing this. This is a conversation that's come up so many times with my girlfriends, however, while all of us are aware that our men watch ******, we all have different feelings about it.
The way you are feeling is not abnormal, so don't feel like you're being a prude! I'd say it's the way you approach the situation which is what could become an issue. I understand that you may feel a little insecure and that is normal, but please remember that we all have a little fantasy.. while us women can be a little more imaginative, it seems men find it easier to access theirs via the Internet.
My friend feels exactly the way you do, generally, she has quiet a low self esteem. I'm not assuming you are in the same boat, but if you feel you might be, then maybe try and work on that.. hit the gym, get your nails done. Start to feel sexy without the tackiness!
Fantasies can be very private to people, would you be able to share yours with him? I honestly turn bright red thinking about sharing mine!..
I'm sure your husband loves you to bits and if you was to discuss this with him he'd reassure you. Just allow him his boy time. Maybe consider having a little look yourself, plenty of women enjoy ****** too. Lots of ****** sites have woman friendly soft ****** now. Its not half as intimidating as it seems, I promise you.
If you are concerned about your children gaining access, then just mention that they're at a curious age and you feel a password might serve you both well.
Good luck with what ever you decide to do :)