by SWLondonMum9 » Wed May 27, 2020 12:51 am
Speaking from the reverse scenario....I'm an expat from the U.S. who's been in London for 18+ years. I've raised my two boys here, far from my family back in the States. The life experience, like anyone's, has had both ups and downs.
On the plus side - it's been amazing to live in another culture (yes, though both countries are English speaking, they are very different in so many ways, both little and big), great to be close to so many different places (in the US, you'd have Canada and Latin America and S. America much closer), to enjoy career opportunities in a big market and to grow because of having pushed the envelope. On the negative side - it's been tough at times to be so far from close family and life-long friends through important milestones, like everything to do with the kids and all the big life events and birthdays/anniversaries.
Being in a different location has incentivised my family and friends to visit London, so I have seen many people here and had great opportunities to share a very different life with people I love. These life experiences have been priceless. I've been very lucky that my folks visited regularly and I made a trip home every summer so my kids connected to their U.S. roots (as, perhaps, you could try to do also?). I have made many local friends and international friends while here and my perspective has changed over the years. I see my home country and myself differently than I once did and all for the better.
Hopefully, you can determine what is most important to you. As many have said, if you choose to go, there is so much great technology for staying in close touch. Whatever you choose, just focus on making the best decision for you and your family. Good luck!
Speaking from the reverse scenario....I'm an expat from the U.S. who's been in London for 18+ years. I've raised my two boys here, far from my family back in the States. The life experience, like anyone's, has had both ups and downs.
On the plus side - it's been amazing to live in another culture (yes, though both countries are English speaking, they are very different in so many ways, both little and big), great to be close to so many different places (in the US, you'd have Canada and Latin America and S. America much closer), to enjoy career opportunities in a big market and to grow because of having pushed the envelope. On the negative side - it's been tough at times to be so far from close family and life-long friends through important milestones, like everything to do with the kids and all the big life events and birthdays/anniversaries.
Being in a different location has incentivised my family and friends to visit London, so I have seen many people here and had great opportunities to share a very different life with people I love. These life experiences have been priceless. I've been very lucky that my folks visited regularly and I made a trip home every summer so my kids connected to their U.S. roots (as, perhaps, you could try to do also?). I have made many local friends and international friends while here and my perspective has changed over the years. I see my home country and myself differently than I once did and all for the better.
Hopefully, you can determine what is most important to you. As many have said, if you choose to go, there is so much great technology for staying in close touch. Whatever you choose, just focus on making the best decision for you and your family. Good luck!