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Re: Dont want to invite unvaccinated friends to a party

by chorister » Mon Aug 02, 2021 11:24 am

@ Scottov "The unvaccinated are taking decisions regarding their bodies that ultimately don’t affect you."

That is a staggeringly short term, narrow minded view.  Viruses mutate all the time, and unvaccinated people provide more opportunities for mutation.  There is always a risk that one day, evolution being what it is, a mutation will emerge which isn't just more transmissable, like the delta variant, but is either more effective at evading vaccines and natural immunity, or is more lethal.  The way to minimise that is to minimise the risks of transmission by maximising vaccination.  It's not rocket science.

Re: Dont want to invite unvaccinated friends to a party

by Scottov » Mon Aug 02, 2021 9:08 am

ilovecurry wrote: Fri Jul 23, 2021 1:49 pm Would love some input here if anyone could give a view. My wife and I are motivated to throw a summer party to celebrate my 40th which happened mid lockdown however we seem to be stuck at the first hurdle, the guest list. My wife's friendship group are quite free spirited and I know that several of them haven't had the vaccine. My wife herself did contemplate abstaining but thankfully (to my mind) stepped forward.
I don't want to throw a covid party and would prefer not to invite those who aren't vaccinated. We have had to isolate a couple of times over the last lockdown period and I don't want to do it again if it can be avoided.
She says that I am being ridiculous.
I think it should be perfectly reasonable to choose not to invite those who have decided against having the vaccine. There aren't hundreds of these friends, probably only 3 so I don't think it is such a big deal at all. Please help me get her to see sense?

If you’re fully vaccinated, what do you even care?

When your wife says your being ridiculous, she’s being kind (and I suspect diplomatic regarding her real thoughts).

Full disclosure, I’m fully vaccinated but I don’t think that makes me morally superior. That you do makes you sound like the worst kind of high status poseur

The unvaccinated are taking decisions regarding their bodies that ultimately don’t affect you.

Re: Dont want to invite unvaccinated friends to a party

by CharlotteAbbb » Mon Aug 02, 2021 8:20 am

Yes but Polio killed and disabled healthy children and young adults. It’s not at all the same. If you’re under 50 you have a 50% chance of having absolutely no symptoms at all if you catch covid and a 99.99% chance of survival. I’d have had the polio vaccine back in the day, I’ve had all my other vaccines, my children have had all their vaccines MMR the works. I am not anti vax. But this one there is absolutely no medical need for, for anyone my age. That is scientific fact. Nobody not the government not any vaccine manufacturer can give you the same certainty that this vaccine is not going to have long term effects, however far away. The pfizer vaccine mRNA tecnhology is not widely tested before this jab, and I’m sorry but who has ever had a vaccine or flu jab with the reactions that people are getting from the COVID jab? I don’t mean serious reactions, I mean the friends and we’ve all got them who have felt like absolute hell after their jabs and then felt fine and got on with life. That’s not a ‘normal’ vaccine in my life experience, not a single vaccine I’ve ever had including flu has put me in bed or given me a pounding headache for weeks. Anyway whilst they can say oh look millions have had this the last couple of months and they’re fine, they cannot because it’s impossible say who it may (or may not, admittedly) impact in 10, 20 years time. It’s a risk not worth taking for me. If I was over 50/ had an underlying medical condition I would get the COVID vaccine. But I am not. And those that are have had the chance to be double vaccinated so they are protected.

Re: Dont want to invite unvaccinated friends to a party

by Medicalmam » Mon Aug 02, 2021 7:53 am

I’m sorry to hear about your friend’s father and hope he recovers quickly.
From the information you have given it sounds like he is still being investigated for his symptoms so it may be that the vaccine did not cause the problem but that it is a very unfortunate coincidence of timing. If it turns out that this case is a new side effect then it will be reported to the MHRA. It is best not to attribute this in public forums until proven.

I’d get everyone to do a test- the easiest way to keep everyone happy.

Re: Dont want to invite unvaccinated friends to a party

by AnaLy » Mon Aug 02, 2021 7:43 am

Lots of heated replies on this. People have choices and make their own. But worryingly vaccine misinformation that has not been checked or corrected by the moderator.

Re: Dont want to invite unvaccinated friends to a party

by ClaphamMomma » Mon Aug 02, 2021 6:45 am

This is completely incorrect. They actually reported 60% of patients are UNVACCINATED. In America - 99.5% of patients dying or hospitalised from covid are UNVACCINATED. When the Polio vaccine came out - no one asked about effects, etc. Everyone just had it. And polio disappeared. This leads to a wider conversation about the denigration of science over the last few decades by people spreading lies on social media.

Re: Dont want to invite unvaccinated friends to a party

by ronangel » Fri Jul 30, 2021 7:48 am

So a link to a an MPs speech in the house is not important and boris has not replied saying any part untrue?
A study paper from the drug manufactures company stating tecnical information at medical level only doctors would understand fully ( That you also do of course, enough to say un true?)
And other stuff which seems to be progressing long term as stated?

Let the people as this site in their wisdom has done to decide for themselves and of course read your contibution with the official line to decide on that themselves as well.

seems many other people all around the world seem to agree for many reasons as well!
https://news.gab.com/2021/07/29/importa ... ents-here/
 

Re: Dont want to invite unvaccinated friends to a party

by Mumonthestreets » Fri Jul 30, 2021 2:12 am

Why is this thread allowed to continue with misinformation piling up from those who have no qualification to comment on vaccines?

Official expert guidence is available, follow it, keep everyone safe, allow us to move towards a a solution as quickly as we can:

gov. uk/government/collections/covid-19-vaccination-programme
who. int/emergencies/diseases/novel-coronavirus-2019/covid-19-vaccines
cdc. gov/vaccines/covid-19/index.html
ema. europa.eu/en/human-regulatory/overview/public-health-threats/coronavirus-disease-covid-19/treatments-vaccines/vaccines-covid-19/covid-19-vaccines-key-facts

Re: Dont want to invite unvaccinated friends to a party

by ronangel » Thu Jul 29, 2021 7:16 am

Couple of points here. Wandsworth council do not make all employees get vacinated nor do they have to disclose if they are or not to anyone else,as been threatened with serious legal action against anyone that is discrimnated against either way! ( check it out and come back, or not).

Dawn Butler is the Member of Parliament for Brent Central. The first elected Black female government minister in the UK. see how much she trust the priminister that has not replied to her comments in the house.
https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=544781663637023 
 
All seems to be going to plan just a few small changes. Just watch the timeline??Dawn will probably understand certain wording which would appear to make true,but cannot be stated here!
https://rumble.com/viww3n-leaked-docs-o ... weeks.html

This study paper, originally written in Japanese and auto-translated into English. Labeled, "Pfizer confidential," the study is known as a bio-distribution study that uses luciferase enzymes and radioisotope markers to accurately track the distribution of Pfizer's mRNA LNPs across the body. What it found should result in the FDA immediately pulling all mRNA vaccines off the market.
I am not medically qualified to comment so just post it. Show to a doctor that is to decide if you want to take the vaccine.
If this is at all true I feel sorrow for those that have already taken it.
http://ssrichardmontgomery.com/download ... 20file.pdf

 

 

Re: Dont want to invite unvaccinated friends to a party

by hal » Tue Jul 27, 2021 12:11 pm

Oh dear @hal ! I don’t want to work you up any further than it appears I have, but per the entire point of my post, having second hand opinions (even from “a CDC epidemiologist on payroll”) doesn’t qualify you to know anything more than a second hand opinion. But as a legal Professional, I trust you know that. Or do “second hand opinions” count as evidence of expertise these days?

Morning Chichi!

Hope all well. Glad you took some time to respond. I think we can deal with your latest outpouring quite quickly given that it's more sound than substance (although not, sadly, briefly given there is a fair bit of chaff that needs addressing). In no particular order, given that, despite all that text (and a bit of random latin thrown in as an attempt to show some law knowledge, bless), you somehow managed to fail to engage with any of the key points in my post:

- the first and most fundamental point that you skate over is that you claim to have had both vaccinations. Having banged on about how you are an expert in this field, collating all this data on COVID, understanding more about vaccines than I could, taking issue with everything that I have said etc etc -- after all that, you had both vaccines. So allowing for "value all opinions/vaccine scepticism" garbage (which I will touch on below), the person who claims to have read all the studies and considered them in their capacity as an apparent expert has, in fact, concluded that the right thing to do is to have the vaccines. Presumably you did so because you assessed that they were likely to be safe short and long-term and that on balance it was the right thing to do, at least for you if not for wider society. Presumably you also did so because you have faith in your assessment of the institutions and processes that led to their development and deployment (which is why the whole "let's be sceptical cos of Purdue" rubbish below is so particularly inapposite and hypocritical). You say that "if you do decide to read the research, you’ll see there’s an argument for BOTH pro- and anti- Vaxxing" - As I have said, there are some categories of people who can't and shouldn't take vaccines and they are not suitable for everyone. No-one is saying otherwise -- the pro-vaccination argument is that once a vaccine is approved as safe and effective against the virus, it's advisable (but not compulsory) that as many people who can take it so as to protect themselves and those within the population who cannot vaccinate; I am not aware of any argument for "anti-vaccination" but I am sure you can point me to the arguments against vaccination.

On the other stuff you've mind-dumped:

- You still haven't addressed my point: I asked you to point out what I had said that was medically incorrect. You didn't. I made an observation about how vaccines work -- they reduce instances of a virus in population; which in turn reduces transmission; which in turn reduces opportunities for mutation. That is why otherwise low risk, perfectly healthy people take a vaccine -- it's for them (in case they are an outlier) and for wider society. Nothing in that is incorrect, nor have you attempted to prove otherwise. That is not a second hand opinion.

- The second part of what I said is also correct -- if you are unvaccinated, "your ability to carry and transmit COVID is greater" -- baffling you take issue with that. Please point out what's incorrect about that.

- The third part of what I said is also correct -- "Vaccination programmes also reduce the potential mutation of viruses like COVID into more virulent forms" -- please point out exactly what's incorrect about that. I didn't say that there is long-term data that demonstrates that these vaccines could curb or have successfully curbed COVID mutation because that's impossible to say at this juncture, in part because it depends on the success of the uptake of the vaccine programme! But the point I have made about the theory about vaccination programmes and mutation is correct.

- You've not engaged with any of that -- you've just deflected with irrelevant examples of medical scandals to show that everyone should be very sceptical of everything they're told. Just for starters: none of these are vaccines, none of these have been produced to meet an international public health crisis of this type with cross-institutional and cross-border collaboration, the regulation and testing process of those products is very different, their purpose and monetisation is totally different, and the instances of medical scandal of this nature are vastly (vastly) outweighed by all the treatments that are out there (including vaccines) that are serving public health interests in their intended and beneficial way. As a big money lawyer (*cough*) I can confirm that I will have considerably more expertise and knowledge in at least one of those matters than you will, so your bedtime story isn't necessary, but ta. 

- Your suggestion that your average anti-vaxxer is well-researched is frankly rubbish. Most of them will not have sufficient inclination, access or experience to read and understand source material studies (peer reviewed or not) and then form a considered view on vaccination. Many will not have had training, discipline or self-awareness about the effects of confirmation bias, and will be simply seeking out google searches of snippets of articles, FB posts, YouTube links and forums that confirm their instincts about vaccines. It was the same with MMR and is the same with many things. Maybe not all of them but a large proportion of them, and outliers are not statistically significant. It is not for nothing that there are massive correlations between anti-vaxxers and conspiracy theorists. Funnily enough, you don't get that correlation the other way. Gosh.

- Not all opinions or observations are equal. You as a medical researcher collating peer reviewed data should understand and value that. You apparently don't. I shouldn't have to say this but individual anecdotes, put forward on the internet encouraging people to be vaccine sceptic, about a relative being crippled after having the first shot of a vaccine, or their arm turning into a topographical map of Ukraine after their second shot are the very definition of pseudoscience: they are unverifiable, the data set is tiny, there is no adjustment for confirmation bias, correlation doesn't equal causation, and so on. This is primary school science. These opinions don't carry equal weight to public health statements and it's irresponsible of you in your profession to suggest that "their beliefs", based upon "personal experience with vaccines, beliefs about medical doctors, family upbringing, religion or something else" which may cause them to "look at “medical” opinion as a version of pseudo-science" should be accorded equal respect. 

- By contrast, the "second hand" opinions that I trust and am apparently "spreading", and which you put on an equal footing with pseudo-science, are accredited, verifiable respected experts in their fields - people who have taken the time to read all the studies, who have decades of clinical and laboratory experience treating patience, field experience in the control and treatment of epidemics, vaccine development. When you have a very large number of those professionals pointing in a particular way, you might want to accord their opinion a bit more weight in your medical decision-making than your aunt who gets a funny feeling at the doctors or who has been listening to the Joe Rogan podcast. What I am expert in is assessing and collating evidence (and the credibility and evidence of experts, including yes hubristic medical experts), and then testing it forensically. What you've done is engage in a logical fallacy -- "let people choose their own version of science until we actually have something conclusive": on the one hand, it assumes people are carefully and forensically weighing up differing bodies of expert opinion to arrive at a measured conclusion; on the other you are acknowledging that what you mean by "their own version of science" is "their beliefs", based upon "personal experience with vaccines, beliefs about medical doctors, family upbringing, religion or something else". That's not how science works -- you don't get your "own version", based on beliefs. You are doing nobody any favours by suggesting your average person is right to be vaccine sceptical -- which is exactly what your posts are suggesting.

- And, not that it's at all relevant to any of the points I am making but seeing as you seem to be taking an interest in legal processes (and I am all for encouraging people to educate themselves and take an interest in the law), you've misunderstood how proof works in a (civil) Court of law -- you don't need to prove truth. You need to demonstrate that you're right on "a balance of probabilities", i.e. more likely to be right than wrong. The preponderance of evidence on the effectiveness of vaccine programmes in limiting spread and mutation of viruses meets that threshold by a country mile. (I'm fairly sure, even though it's even less relevant, it would meet the criminal standard too.)

- And, finally (phew), you say this: "You’re not judgemental, you just think that others posting pseudoscience “deprives others of their own autonomy and consent.”" Actually, nope, that's rubbish. I didn't say that. What I did in fact say was the following (thought it might help if you read it this time, so I've reproduced it below):

"it’s that people should make their own decision based on actual medical advice, not poorly researched internet searches and random strangers on the internet saying their uncle’s head exploded after being in the same room as the vaccine for 5 mins, and - most importantly - not actively lie to others about their choices to vaccinate or not, so that others can act accordingly. It’s the latter bit that draws my judgement, not the former (which is down to the individual). It deprives others of their own autonomy and consent which, as a medical researcher, you should be astute to. That’s the only so-called “Big Shot” I am firing at others..."

I've highlighted the point I did make so perhaps you will understand it this time and engage with it, rather than coming up with more convenient straw arguments. I will say it again, (1) people can and make their own decisions on vaccination, as we all should have bodily autonomy and the right to make choices; (2) anyone has the right to enquire about someone's vaccination choices; (3) no-one is or should be obliged to answer that question; and (4), which is the point and the only judgement I was making to that person, is that by actively choosing to lie to others about your own vaccination status, you are interfering with the autonomy of others and vitiating their consent. Let me give you an example to illustrate: if I cannot vaccinate because I am immunocompromised, I have to make choices and risk assessments about who I see and what situations I can put myself in. If a friend falsely tells me that they are vaccinated and I consent to spend time with them because I have made my own risk assessment based on my friend's lie, they have manipulated my autonomy and vitiated my consent. This is ethically not much different to giving a patient a placebo drug and telling them they are now immune to Ebola - their consent has been obtained under false pretenses. I'm assuming you don't take issue with "it's bad to lie about vaccination" as a judgement.

Toodle pip.

 

Re: Dont want to invite unvaccinated friends to a party

by chorister » Tue Jul 27, 2021 8:34 am

@Chichi - I think you will find that Sarah Gilbert and her companions at Oxford and Ugur Sahin and his colleagues at BionTech understand exactly how their vaccines work - in fact they had been preparing to make vaccines in response to a crisis like this for years, which is why as soon as the genetic sequence became available they were able to design them within literally days.  The rest of the time has been taken up with testing, scaling production etc.  Try the BionTech website - it has masses of information (or would that confuse you?).

You probably also need a course in statistics - nothing is 100% safe (your device may electrocute you while you read this) but on the balance of probabilities the COVID vaccines have been amazingly safe on literally hundreds of millions of people now.

Re: Dont want to invite unvaccinated friends to a party

by Chichi » Tue Jul 27, 2021 7:22 am

Oh dear @hal ! I don’t want to work you up any further than it appears I have, but per the entire point of my post, having second hand opinions (even from “a CDC epidemiologist on payroll”) doesn’t qualify you to know anything more than a second hand opinion. But as a legal Professional, I trust you know that. Or do “second hand opinions” count as evidence of expertise these days?

To answer your question, I’m double vaxxed for several good reasons. But, again, Hal, my dear mere mortal Representative of the Law, you seem to be reaching to argue that that makes me a hypocrite because I am “tenuous” on the subject. Except…I never claimed I was for or against vaccines at all. I think in your field they call that attenpt of informal fallacy Tu Quoque, no? So let’s go ahead and throw that point out too, shall we?

Now Hal, thanks very much for pointing out there are multiple vaccines in the UK. To, your question: have I “been pivotal in researching all of them?” Well… yes. My job is, quite literally, to gather enormous amounts of vaccine data, run statistics against them and submit metanalysis of the conclusions for journals. This is what has been used and will continue being used to set academic, institutional and governmental policy. I do this as part of a very large team. We don’t rely on “opinions,” because everything put to paper at this level is rigorously fact-checked multiple times pre-publication. Not only do we submit background on these Vaccines, but also Covid-19, it’s predecessors, a history of both adenovirus and mRNA vaccination, speculation on policy, recommendations on usage and the limitations of each study. In my “spare time” I also like long walks on the beach. So, yeah, I would say I know a little bit about the “multiple vaccines in the UK.”

Now Hal, please don’t be so hard on yourself. You’re not a “non-scientist thicko,” and I would never imply that. But … your comment that “unless your faith in all forms of longstanding medical expert bodies is so eroded you’d rather look to FB forums or Google for answers, then I would suggest that if you’re going to place your belief in anything, you should follow the doctors….” makes me want to sit you down and tell you a nice bedtime story about Acutane, oral contraceptives and the Opioid Crisis. I know you’re not into firsthand details Hal, but it’s basically about a whole lot of biased institutional research, big money lawyers (*coughs*) and some perfectly trustworthy medical doctors. Lateral thinking, Hal, lateral thinking.

“It seems your real objection is that I’m being judgemental!” Bravo my friend! Yes! This was my only point !

Except….you go on. You’re not judgemental, you just think that others posting pseudoscience “deprives others of their own autonomy and consent.” But then I have to ask… what do you think you’re doing by putting up THIS beauty: “Which shows that you don’t understand how vaccines work. Your ability to carry and transmit COVID is greater. Vaccination programmes also reduce the potential mutation of viruses like COVID into more virulent forms.” If you were in my position OR in yours, attempting to prove the verity of that declarative sentence in a legal battle, you would have a difficult time without fluffing the stats. You would know that it’s simply not defensible enough to put out in the name of truth. You can not call other people out for “pseudo-science” when you are, in fact yourself, spreading other people’s second hand opinions.

The only difference between you and the anti-Vax community is that you have faith in medical experts and they do not. You jump to the conclusion that they rely on pseudo-science, but actually, their beliefs may just as likely be due to personal experience with vaccines, beliefs about medical doctors, family upbringing, religion or something else. Put simply, they look at “medical” opinion as a version of pseudo-science themselves. They may have aversions to “lemming” behaviour. Whatever. The point is: None of us (including me!) are “right” to conclude anything about anything. In fact, if you do decide to read the research, you’ll see there’s an argument for BOTH pro- and anti- Vaxxing. And that’s not a bad thing. So let people choose their own version of science until we actually have something conclusive.

Re: Dont want to invite unvaccinated friends to a party

by wannabeMaryBerry » Tue Jul 27, 2021 6:43 am

Just one of many diseases which thankfully we don't need to worry about, but that protection is being compromised by those who don't get vaccinated. Tragically this is mostly down to misinformation and down right lies about vaccines. 

But they put us all at risk. 

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Re: Dont want to invite unvaccinated friends to a party

by Torcat » Mon Jul 26, 2021 6:02 pm

We had a small gathering recently where 2 out of the guests were not vaccinated, by choice. It never occurred to me not to invite them. None of my guests were vulnerable and we had all had our double jabs. I still see these 2 people regularly, even though they are never going to be vaccinated and I am not going to stop. I am not particularly high risk, but there is risk in any social setting and I accept that, as did my guests. If I knew I was inviting clinically vulnerable people then it would be a different matter, of course, but so long as you are reasonably careful, don't invite too many people and stay outside, I think that is as much as you can do. If you were that worried then you wouldn't be having a party at all. We are never going to know who has been vaxxed, who is a a super spreader, who is vaxxed but still transmits....These are the risks we just have to live with now.

Re: Dont want to invite unvaccinated friends to a party

by gemmacollinshaslost35stone » Mon Jul 26, 2021 5:18 pm

Invite everyone - get them to do a test when they enter the front door.

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