by samina40 » Thu Jun 21, 2012 8:19 pm
I've been nannying 16 years, I only had one situation working for a family where the father of the family had an affair. It did not effect my work, because he did not bring his girlfriend home. I am currently working for a family, its been a year already, the children are young 2 and 5 years old. The mother is not really a mother type, luckily the father cares and puts effort in bringing up his kids. both parents are succesful at work, they live in a big house and everything seems ok. the mother has this boyfriend type ,she spends most of her free time with him, he comes and goes and spends time with the family too as he is a family friend. Until she kept him for the night as well when the father was abroad. I didn't know who she spent the night with, it was pretty much a shock for me, but she had a cheek to bring him next day as well, so it wasnt just one night this has been already going on between them. she is really obsessed about him, cooks for him etc, he never stayed for the night before, I guess they must have met in his home. the funny thing is she told me that he has a girlfriend who is pregnant! what a mess! and he came next day with a big smile and everybody pretended nothing has happened! the kids know him and the father knows him as well, he is a friend of the family , so they don't need to hide. the mother comes sometimes home really late 3-4am, but if her husband does not mind, I don't really care. I felt embarassed and I don't know how to act after their night together, I guess it is a part of the job!
who is more guiltier the married woman and the guy whose girlfriend is pregnant! I just can't work it out, I guess nothing will change anyway, she doesn't mind and the father will not believe that anyway, he is just too nice and sort of 'donkey.
thanks for reading this and I am just curious in case someone will reply.
I've been nannying 16 years, I only had one situation working for a family where the father of the family had an affair. It did not effect my work, because he did not bring his girlfriend home. I am currently working for a family, its been a year already, the children are young 2 and 5 years old. The mother is not really a mother type, luckily the father cares and puts effort in bringing up his kids. both parents are succesful at work, they live in a big house and everything seems ok. the mother has this boyfriend type ,she spends most of her free time with him, he comes and goes and spends time with the family too as he is a family friend. Until she kept him for the night as well when the father was abroad. I didn't know who she spent the night with, it was pretty much a shock for me, but she had a cheek to bring him next day as well, so it wasnt just one night this has been already going on between them. she is really obsessed about him, cooks for him etc, he never stayed for the night before, I guess they must have met in his home. the funny thing is she told me that he has a girlfriend who is pregnant! what a mess! and he came next day with a big smile and everybody pretended nothing has happened! the kids know him and the father knows him as well, he is a friend of the family , so they don't need to hide. the mother comes sometimes home really late 3-4am, but if her husband does not mind, I don't really care. I felt embarassed and I don't know how to act after their night together, I guess it is a part of the job!
who is more guiltier the married woman and the guy whose girlfriend is pregnant! I just can't work it out, I guess nothing will change anyway, she doesn't mind and the father will not believe that anyway, he is just too nice and sort of 'donkey.
thanks for reading this and I am just curious in case someone will reply.