Postby nicolel » Mon Nov 15, 2021 1:34 pm
It's hard to say without knowing whether you feel he's on your side or not, but assuming he is, and is not just a selfish insensitive jerk, and assuming you actually would like to lose some your weight, maybe you could explain to him that you are just too exhausted to focus on yourself at the moment. Perhaps he could help by taking over care of the baby, household, cooking, cleaning, etc, when he gets home from work and at the weekends, then you could have some me-time to focus on your diet, exercise, self-care etc.
If he doesn't believe that looking after a baby and a household is exhausting, then book yourself a week's holiday with girlfriends at a health spa, and leave him to look after everything for a week, and see how he feels at the end of it!