Hi there. I'm sorry to hear that you're contemplating leaving your husband. It's important to make sure that you have all of the facts before making a decision. I highly recommend that you speak with a lawyer to get a better idea of what your options are. For instance, I'm acquainted with
military defense attorneys. They also provide help for family law courts. They will be able to provide you with the best advice and support. You may also want to consider speaking with a therapist or counselor to help you sort through your feelings and make sure you're making the best decision for yourself. Good luck!