Postby Roxron » Sun Feb 14, 2016 8:03 am
This may just be a bit too out there but surely when it comes to sex we should at least consider that individuals are likely to have different desires? I don't just mean how often we like it, although that's important too, but in what style.
I'm not forgiving anyone who strays but don't want to judge them straight away either. Sex can be a far more vital part of daily life for one person than it is for another. If one partner in a relationship chooses something a little '50 shades' but the other partner would rather not indulge should the first miss out? And if after the routine of life kicks in to a previously rampant relationship, and twice a day is now twice a month, one partner isn't happy to just settle for that and still needs the physical satisfaction, couldn't they find that elsewhere?
We're not all cut from the same cloth and in most aspects of life that's what makes us interesting and makes our relationships work. Sadly with sex though to be different can drive you apart and it's up to us whether we let it or instead try and understand it.