I have a 19 months gap. The first 5 months were very hard but now I see the rewards (it started to become easier when the youngest started to sit up). They love each others, my eldest has no memories of ever having been on her own and when they play together I have can have up to 20 min on my own... which is luxury
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I agree with the other mums under 18 months or over 3 years is easier. Sometimes I felt that a 15 months gap like my sister in law would have been a bit easier because the needs are not so different whereas my 19 months was started to become very independant, wanted to try everything on her own "my... my..." which took obviously 10 times more time!!!
Good luck