So sorry to hear of your loss. Like you and many others who have posted I had several early miscarriages before I had my first daughter then another in between followed by successful second pregnancy and second daughter. I was just so grateful to have my baby that I saw it as an absolute bonus if I got another. I had loads of tests and the only thing they found was a little fibroid which they removed. Don't think thus was the cause as I had 2 miscarriages after that op.
Other posters have given excellent advice. It
makes me wonder if I had the killer cells thing...
The only Thing I have to add is that I found learning natural family planning - where you read your bodies signs to tell
when you're ovulating. I felt it gave me some focus and control and that I was doing what I could. It takes a bit of learning - taking body temp when you wake and charting it but you soon get it, with support
of a natural family planning specialist - check out
www.fpa.org. uk or call
their helpline to get more info and find a specialist. With both successful pregnancies I knew I was ovulating so we had sex and hey presto.
It took the pressure off a little.
Good luck, love the child you have and keep
on keeping on
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