Baby Sleep Consultant

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Baby Sleep Consultant

Postby kat18 » Wed May 08, 2013 7:52 am

Hi
Has anyone ever used a sleep consultant. Having some issues with my 7 month old. I have seen an ad for Kathryn Mewes. Does anyone have any feedback or recommendations?
Thanks
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Re: Baby Sleep Consultant

Postby Annabel (admin) » Thu May 09, 2013 3:16 pm

Hi
There was a HUGE thread about this a few days ago...

http://www.nappyvalleynet.com/mums/view ... 46&t=32715

I've heard very good things about Kathryn Mewes but haven't used her myself.

Hope this helps!
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Re: Baby Sleep Consultant

Postby klw » Thu May 09, 2013 10:30 pm

Kathryn is brilliant, we used her (about 5 weeks ago) to help resolve sleep problems with my 20 month old son and he now ( mostly!) sleeps though. She managed to make some pretty big changes very quickly, I wish I had called her earlier.

She was lovely to have around and we were so sad when we had to say goodbye to her! Please feel free to pm me if you have any other questions about our experience with Kathryn.
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Re: Baby Sleep Consultant

Postby fionapm » Fri May 10, 2013 6:39 am

We worked with Carol Mae and she was great. She has also worked with two other girls from my NCT group and another friend - who were all very pleased.

Carolmaeconsulting.co.uk

Before I worked with her I spoke to three consultants on the phone about their approach, follow up, etc. I would try to get a few names as it is a difficult time and you need to be v comfortable with whoever you work with - it's very personal. The other people I spoke to are Kathryn Mewes and Hayley Berlin.
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Postby Blissfulbabyexpert » Fri May 10, 2013 7:31 am

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Re: Baby Sleep Consultant

Postby kat18 » Fri May 10, 2013 2:53 pm

Thanks for all the feedback
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Re: Baby Sleep Consultant

Postby bjmama » Mon May 13, 2013 6:59 am

Hello, my friend is a baby sleep consultant and she recommended to me the book by the woman who trained her. It's called The Sleep Lady's Good Night Sleep Tight. It changed our lives. We were having a shocking time with our 14mo and since following her method he has slept through and napped perfectly every day since. (it's been a few months).

You just have to read the first couple of chapters and then the age appropriate one (the book covers 0-5 years), so it's very quick to formulate a plan.

Good luck!
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Re: Baby Sleep Consultant

Postby swayam2003 » Mon May 13, 2013 1:18 pm

We used Kathryn Mewes for our twins when they were 13 months old and we haven't looked back since. She's brilliant and is so resourceful around the house too! She also deals with behavioural issues that she spots during her stint and can provide advice on tricky subjects like feeding, etc.

She's very expensive but you can't put a price on sleep - it truly is the best gift you can give your child who obviously wants to be asleep.

Good luck! x
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Re: Baby Sleep Consultant

Postby biscuitbrown » Mon May 13, 2013 2:23 pm

Kathryn Mewes is very, very expensive, and I'm not sure solved all our problems. I'd be tempted to try someone a bit more reasonable. She is lovely, but I think she overcharges for some very common sense advice.
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Re: Baby Sleep Consultant

Postby BabyMagic » Mon May 13, 2013 11:03 pm

Just for my two pennies' worth....
My name is Sophie, and I've worked as a Sleep Consultant for several of the families who use this board, but more frequently by word of mouth.
I personally don't like the 'phone consultant' system, I prefer a more personal touch. Seeing the baby/child interact in their home environment, observing and talking about their normal routine and patterns, and really listening to parents' worries and concerns is vital to a proper approach. One size do NOT fit all (but neither do I take the Mewes-style stance that all problems dan be solved in 3 days, some issues are too deep and too far ingrained).
I chat on the phone, then visit at home. The phone advice is free and sometimes sorts matters out. The visit is two hours, although my last case we lengthened to four and solved the problem there and then, much to all of our surprise. More often than not, I stay with you for a few nights, firstly taking nights myself so you can catch up on some sleep, and putting into action a tailored sleep plan, breaking the cycle in place, then I guide you through e steps until you are confident yourselves, and provide phone support in the future. My prices drop as the week goes on, and your child becomes a more successful sleeper, and my usual rates are at least half the normal 'Expert' expectation.
I was a nanny for fifteen years, involving years as a trouble shooter around the globe. I have a degree in English Lit and Lang, specialising in Child Linguistic Development, and post-graduate education in Early Years development and teaching. I am now a trainee doctor at St. George's, going on to be a GP with a paediatric specialty. I am also a fully qualified instructor in Infant, Child and Adult Life Support and First Aid.
If you would like to call me for a chat, just to see what your options might be, or for a few free tips, I'd be happy to talk to you. I am on the wards this week until 5pm but free afterwards and my number is 07787993156.
Wishing you a peaceful night.
Sophie.
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Re: Baby Sleep Consultant

Postby BabyMagic » Mon May 13, 2013 11:05 pm

P.S. Sorry for the typos...it's been a long day!
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Re: Baby Sleep Consultant

Postby sw11_ » Tue May 14, 2013 10:10 am

Hi Sophie (or anyone else who can help!). How young is too young to get some help with sleep would you say? My 7 week old has never slept a night in her own moses basket or cot - she will only sleep on me or my husband. I enjoyed it at first but i'm keen to break the cycle sooner rather than later. I wouldn't be averse to letting her cry a bit if it meant she started sleeping in her own cot, but am so worried about her waking my toddler!

Help!
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Re: Baby Sleep Consultant

Postby Carol Mae » Tue May 14, 2013 11:01 am

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Hi there, little ones are able to self settle and can be doing around the following;
7am- wake up and feed
830/45-10 sleep
11 - feed
12-230 - sleep
230/3 - feed
4-5 - sleep
630 - feed
7 - bed
11pm- feed
Depending on her size she should be having just a small feed around 4am, and then straight back to sleep. Self settling into the basket can be tricky if not done from early on but is very fixable, not much crying should be involved, there's just a few small tricks to it, ie not missing the tired cues etc, swaddling, making sure the room temperature is good and a bit of patting and showing them how to self settle in her own basket, it can be fixed in just one day so don't stress but best to get it done so you can have your bed back :)
Carol Mae
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Postby BabyMagic » Tue May 14, 2013 2:03 pm

Hi SW11,
I know the feeling well! Baby sleep patterns become even more of an issue when there is a toddler in the house. It's lovely to have a milk-sleepy newborn cuddled up on your chest with that delicious tiny baby smell and the beautiful little sleep smiles...but it's not terribly convenient 100% of the time, and they get a bit heavy by 8 months!
To be absolutely honest, there is no real way of sleep training a 7 week old, very young babies have such frequent growth spurts and change their patterns so often that trying to 'train' as such is useless until about 6 months (although there will be plenty of very expensive folk who will tell you the opposite, charge you the earth and sort one sleep routine, only for you to find your little one changes their natural pattern again at 8 weeks!).
What you CAN do is learn how to establish the best possible sleep hygiene for your baby, and rule out anything more developmentally problematical or medically relevant e.g. reflux, ear infection etc. Good sleep hygiene and a sound but flexible early routine will help build the basis for healthy happy sleep later in life. Once any 'red flag' issues have been ruled out there are lots of techniques you can use that will enable you to put your baby down, awake, in the Moses basket and ensure that you get some 'grown-up time' of an evening!
The best way to do this is to have someone come in and observe for an evening, in order to see what may help. There is no 'one size fits all' plan as far as sleep goes, whatever Gina Ford may suggest (IMHO). If you'd rather try and sort it without any expense, then your first port of call is your health visitor. I'm also happy to have a chat on the phone too, if it helps, no charge.
My last but one sleep family had much the same problem, we had a couple of phone chats, I came in for an evening's observation (at about a third of the Mewes cost, fab as she is), they tried on their own with the option of me coming in, one phone call later...sorted. Sometimes it's easier for an outsider to 'read' the baby signals, especially when subjectivity and sleeplessness are involved. Getting help is not giving in, especially with older children (6 months +), it can sometimes take a friendly 'outsider' to break a pattern that the child/baby associates with the parents and their patterns of behaviour. This doesn't apply at 7 weeks, but there are lots of tactics that can be tried until the right for for your baby and your family as a whole is found.
I know that this probably wasn't very helpful, so far, but the trainee Doctor in me is wary of giving specific advice without knowing more first hand!
My ward dutioes finish at 5pm this week, so feel free to give me a bell, if you'd like. I may only have half an hour or so free, but I'm happy to talk if it helps.
Happy sleeping,
Sophie.
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Re: Baby Sleep Consultant

Postby Carol Mae » Tue May 14, 2013 2:22 pm

BabyMagic wrote:To be absolutely honest, there is no real way of sleep training a 7 week old, very young babies have such frequent growth spurts and change their patterns so often that trying to 'train' as such is useless until about 6 months (although there will be plenty of very expensive folk who will tell you the opposite, charge you the earth and sort one sleep routine, only for you to find your little one changes their natural pattern again at 8 weeks!).
I'd have to disagree with your above comment Sophie, no parent should have to wait for 6 months before they or their little one should be able to sleep and sleep alone, to advise otherwise isn't all that helpful. No major sleep training is done with a 7 week old but they can be shown how to self settle themselves, to be sleeping in their own baskets which is much safe than co sleeping with an exhausted Mum. In addition, if a sleep trainer is experienced enough and worth their money they will guide the parents along for the next few weeks until the nights are completely sorted. Its purely a habit the baby has got themselves into, having the constant comfort and it's just about introducing better sleeping habits with having no sleep associations, its not about 'training'. It really is as simple as that, so to carry on with the notion that nothing can be done for 6 months seems ludicrous. I help on average 2 mums a week with babies of this age, settling them into a gentle routine, sleeping without any aid and mum and baby are very much better off for it. Finally, to the Mum who posted, you don't need to pay a sleep trainer for this age, alternatively and at a cheaper rate you can book a really qualified maternity nurse who can come and spend two days with you and show you all of the techniques(but only go on someone who has been recommended as some can be less helpful than others, ie introducing dummies and leaving you with another habit to break later on)
Best of luck
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